"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm so low, I don't want to go on--Please help-Any advice will be appreciated

Titus

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Cccc, bad, bad, bad aura.

It seems your whole fusebox just went to that great power conduit in the sky.
You've got a HORSELOAD of plugged up energy channels there buddy. You really oughta do something about them.

Bioenergy makes miracles
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Titus wrote:

"Cccc, bad, bad, bad aura.

It seems your whole fusebox just went to that great power conduit in the sky.
You've got a HORSELOAD of plugged up energy channels there buddy. You really oughta do something about them.

Bioenergy makes miracles"

What are you talking about Titus????
 

Titus

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What i said. You have totaly clogged up energy channels.

Imagine you body a as powerplant of energy, instead of just a sack of meat and bones. There is a place where energy comes into you, and where it goes out. Life energy. And there are 7 "checkpoints" in your body, which that flowing current flows throu and fills up all the time. They regulate everything, love, hate, emotions, being sucessful at work, at relationships, confidence... practicaly every state that you head can get into.

And, here's the bad news.

The "checkpoints" depend on one another (they range upwards from your dyck to the point of your head), and once one fails, all the rest after it fail too.

The good news:

They can always be refilled and brought up to full power again.

A disclaimer:
This is not the only way to save you from your depression. There are tons of ways to do it, but this one is still a bit different. It attacks the problem at it's core. And i stick my dyck in the nearest microwave oven it 100% works.

G'luck!
 

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It's threads like this that remind me of how many greats peeps we got here - good advice by everyone so far...

Last week my girlfriend left me for another guy - I can still hear her words echoing in my head like some kind of demonic,broken record: "I want to be with him." I was zombie-like for the first few days, then I realized everything that has been previously mentioned in this thread - A real man doesn't NEED a women in his life. I was single for 3 years before her, and I remember how damn happy I was with only myself to worry about! Time heals all wounds, and you will come out of it a better and stronger person.

Hang in there man, things are gonna get better - the next few months are gonna be rough, no doubt about it, just power through em and keep yourself busy - the one thing you DO NOT want to do is sit and dwell on the past, cause that's exactly what it is: history. Good luck!
 
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hit the gym and release that pent up anger
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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