"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm so low, I don't want to go on--Please help-Any advice will be appreciated

Titus

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Cccc, bad, bad, bad aura.

It seems your whole fusebox just went to that great power conduit in the sky.
You've got a HORSELOAD of plugged up energy channels there buddy. You really oughta do something about them.

Bioenergy makes miracles
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Titus wrote:

"Cccc, bad, bad, bad aura.

It seems your whole fusebox just went to that great power conduit in the sky.
You've got a HORSELOAD of plugged up energy channels there buddy. You really oughta do something about them.

Bioenergy makes miracles"

What are you talking about Titus????
 

Titus

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What i said. You have totaly clogged up energy channels.

Imagine you body a as powerplant of energy, instead of just a sack of meat and bones. There is a place where energy comes into you, and where it goes out. Life energy. And there are 7 "checkpoints" in your body, which that flowing current flows throu and fills up all the time. They regulate everything, love, hate, emotions, being sucessful at work, at relationships, confidence... practicaly every state that you head can get into.

And, here's the bad news.

The "checkpoints" depend on one another (they range upwards from your dyck to the point of your head), and once one fails, all the rest after it fail too.

The good news:

They can always be refilled and brought up to full power again.

A disclaimer:
This is not the only way to save you from your depression. There are tons of ways to do it, but this one is still a bit different. It attacks the problem at it's core. And i stick my dyck in the nearest microwave oven it 100% works.

G'luck!
 

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It's threads like this that remind me of how many greats peeps we got here - good advice by everyone so far...

Last week my girlfriend left me for another guy - I can still hear her words echoing in my head like some kind of demonic,broken record: "I want to be with him." I was zombie-like for the first few days, then I realized everything that has been previously mentioned in this thread - A real man doesn't NEED a women in his life. I was single for 3 years before her, and I remember how damn happy I was with only myself to worry about! Time heals all wounds, and you will come out of it a better and stronger person.

Hang in there man, things are gonna get better - the next few months are gonna be rough, no doubt about it, just power through em and keep yourself busy - the one thing you DO NOT want to do is sit and dwell on the past, cause that's exactly what it is: history. Good luck!
 
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hit the gym and release that pent up anger
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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