"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm so ****ing tired.

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I seem to be tired alot, even when I get a good amount of sleep. I am constantly yawning. I don't know why. What is a good, healthy way to be energetic (NOT caffeine)?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Read an article about this the other day.
Go to your physician and get it checked out...could be underactive thyroid gland, which is a big cause. Also could be something like stress. However, if you're getting a solid 8 hours of sleep a night (I prefer 6 in a night and a 4 hour nap in the day, :D), there's somethin wrong if you're still tired. See your doctor and he/she will probably do a blood test too, cause there's any one of several factors that could be causing your fatigue. Hope that helps.
 

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You're gonna get this moved to health and fitness...

I'd see a doctor about it too. Could be any number of things, but might as well play it safe.
 

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Are you eating properly?

Drink lots of water take a multi-vitamin every morning, fruits, etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah I usually get at least 8 hours of sleep. Even when I get 10 hours I still find myself yawning alot.

I eat a vegan diet consisting of mostly vegetables, fruits, alot of soy products, nuts, and alot of grains. I know I am getting all of the nutrients I need.
 

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Whenever I get lazy I get tired all the time. Especially over breaks from school, when I sleep in until afternoon, I have no energy. Make sure you're staying active. Just my theory, but I think your body kind of hibernates when you don't do anything.
 

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Originally posted by livin large
Whenever I get lazy I get tired all the time. Especially over breaks from school, when I sleep in until afternoon, I have no energy.
Hmm... maybe that is my problem. On weekends I stay up until like 3 am and wake up at 1 or 2 pm the next day.... and I am tired until I go to sleep again.

I think I will try running and working out more... maybe that will help me out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i think your sleeping too much. try waking up early and going running. that gives me energy for the day.
 

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Follow this check list and try to improve on each.

1) Sleep (the obvious choice)
2) Water- Drink tons of it. Sometimes your periods of fatigue during the day are directly linked to dehydration.
3) Meal timing- eat more frequently to keep fueling energy. But eat the right meals
4) Caffeine and sugar abuse- What comes up must come down and too much caffeine and sugar will lift you but drop you hard
5) Glycemic index, this is related to sugar and blood sugar more specifically. Some meals will spike your blood glucose levels dramatically causing a rapid release of insulin from the body which will dramatically lower your glucose levels. This spike up and down can play havoc on your energy levels.
6) Exercise- If you overdo it, you'll be overtrained and tired. But a tiny bit everyday will definitely energize you. This is why I definitely recommend a bit of cardio, but short duration and higher intensity will do you better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if u smoke and walk daily (like to work or college or something) stop either ... worked for me ...... and drink more ...hope this helps
 

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you're most likely waking up when you're under deep r.e.m.

highly recommended site. tells you when to wake up without feeling tired or groggy.

http://sleepyti.me
 

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Why the hell did this thread get necro'ed? It was 8 years ago and people are still giving advice as though the guy is still here.
 
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