"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm so ****ing tired.

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I seem to be tired alot, even when I get a good amount of sleep. I am constantly yawning. I don't know why. What is a good, healthy way to be energetic (NOT caffeine)?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Read an article about this the other day.
Go to your physician and get it checked out...could be underactive thyroid gland, which is a big cause. Also could be something like stress. However, if you're getting a solid 8 hours of sleep a night (I prefer 6 in a night and a 4 hour nap in the day, :D), there's somethin wrong if you're still tired. See your doctor and he/she will probably do a blood test too, cause there's any one of several factors that could be causing your fatigue. Hope that helps.
 

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You're gonna get this moved to health and fitness...

I'd see a doctor about it too. Could be any number of things, but might as well play it safe.
 

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Are you eating properly?

Drink lots of water take a multi-vitamin every morning, fruits, etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah I usually get at least 8 hours of sleep. Even when I get 10 hours I still find myself yawning alot.

I eat a vegan diet consisting of mostly vegetables, fruits, alot of soy products, nuts, and alot of grains. I know I am getting all of the nutrients I need.
 

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Whenever I get lazy I get tired all the time. Especially over breaks from school, when I sleep in until afternoon, I have no energy. Make sure you're staying active. Just my theory, but I think your body kind of hibernates when you don't do anything.
 

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Originally posted by livin large
Whenever I get lazy I get tired all the time. Especially over breaks from school, when I sleep in until afternoon, I have no energy.
Hmm... maybe that is my problem. On weekends I stay up until like 3 am and wake up at 1 or 2 pm the next day.... and I am tired until I go to sleep again.

I think I will try running and working out more... maybe that will help me out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think your sleeping too much. try waking up early and going running. that gives me energy for the day.
 

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Follow this check list and try to improve on each.

1) Sleep (the obvious choice)
2) Water- Drink tons of it. Sometimes your periods of fatigue during the day are directly linked to dehydration.
3) Meal timing- eat more frequently to keep fueling energy. But eat the right meals
4) Caffeine and sugar abuse- What comes up must come down and too much caffeine and sugar will lift you but drop you hard
5) Glycemic index, this is related to sugar and blood sugar more specifically. Some meals will spike your blood glucose levels dramatically causing a rapid release of insulin from the body which will dramatically lower your glucose levels. This spike up and down can play havoc on your energy levels.
6) Exercise- If you overdo it, you'll be overtrained and tired. But a tiny bit everyday will definitely energize you. This is why I definitely recommend a bit of cardio, but short duration and higher intensity will do you better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if u smoke and walk daily (like to work or college or something) stop either ... worked for me ...... and drink more ...hope this helps
 

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you're most likely waking up when you're under deep r.e.m.

highly recommended site. tells you when to wake up without feeling tired or groggy.

http://sleepyti.me
 

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Why the hell did this thread get necro'ed? It was 8 years ago and people are still giving advice as though the guy is still here.
 
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