"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm skeptical... (advice needed)

Drumstick

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About a year ago, I met this girl who was kind of hot and definitely took a liking to me.

To make a long story short, I kino'd and charmed my way into making her wet whenever we talked. Everyone noticed that she obviously liked me and some guys even flat out said "WOW!" after a particularly good conversation I carried.

Contact ended at the end of the school year and we didn't see eachother again untill earlier this week. It bassically carried on right from where we left off -immediate kino and she said "you owe me prom!".

So, she is hot and she gets pretty horny if I work my magic proporly. Thats good.

Problem is, I'm not sure if I like her personality, so I would need to make this a fvck-buddy situation. I don't like her personality much because she would try to convince me she had a rich uncle and ****, and she seemed a bit clingy, almost attention whorish (which I know is somewhat responsible for her liking me so much -and it also means it will probably be easier to bang her, which I consider "taking advantage of" which is bad).

To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

How do I approach this if I decide to go for it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mcpwn

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shes hot, she tries to impress u with having a rich uncle,


wtf is wrong with you!?!? lol
 

Drumstick

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Whats your point?
 

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Usually both sides need to have a common interest... meaning she would want to be **** buddies too. By the sound of it, she genuinely likes you so it probably wont happen.
 

SinJester

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She's hot AND horny? Hey I would even be able to put up with a *****y personality for awhile for that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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splinterkb

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To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.
 

ARrocket

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splinterkb said:
To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.

LMAO. I think I have a new catch phrase.
 
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