"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm skeptical... (advice needed)

Drumstick

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About a year ago, I met this girl who was kind of hot and definitely took a liking to me.

To make a long story short, I kino'd and charmed my way into making her wet whenever we talked. Everyone noticed that she obviously liked me and some guys even flat out said "WOW!" after a particularly good conversation I carried.

Contact ended at the end of the school year and we didn't see eachother again untill earlier this week. It bassically carried on right from where we left off -immediate kino and she said "you owe me prom!".

So, she is hot and she gets pretty horny if I work my magic proporly. Thats good.

Problem is, I'm not sure if I like her personality, so I would need to make this a fvck-buddy situation. I don't like her personality much because she would try to convince me she had a rich uncle and ****, and she seemed a bit clingy, almost attention whorish (which I know is somewhat responsible for her liking me so much -and it also means it will probably be easier to bang her, which I consider "taking advantage of" which is bad).

To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

How do I approach this if I decide to go for it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mcpwn

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shes hot, she tries to impress u with having a rich uncle,


wtf is wrong with you!?!? lol
 

Drumstick

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Whats your point?
 

splinterkb

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Usually both sides need to have a common interest... meaning she would want to be **** buddies too. By the sound of it, she genuinely likes you so it probably wont happen.
 

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She's hot AND horny? Hey I would even be able to put up with a *****y personality for awhile for that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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splinterkb

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To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.
 

ARrocket

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splinterkb said:
To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.

LMAO. I think I have a new catch phrase.
 
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