"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm skeptical... (advice needed)

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About a year ago, I met this girl who was kind of hot and definitely took a liking to me.

To make a long story short, I kino'd and charmed my way into making her wet whenever we talked. Everyone noticed that she obviously liked me and some guys even flat out said "WOW!" after a particularly good conversation I carried.

Contact ended at the end of the school year and we didn't see eachother again untill earlier this week. It bassically carried on right from where we left off -immediate kino and she said "you owe me prom!".

So, she is hot and she gets pretty horny if I work my magic proporly. Thats good.

Problem is, I'm not sure if I like her personality, so I would need to make this a fvck-buddy situation. I don't like her personality much because she would try to convince me she had a rich uncle and ****, and she seemed a bit clingy, almost attention whorish (which I know is somewhat responsible for her liking me so much -and it also means it will probably be easier to bang her, which I consider "taking advantage of" which is bad).

To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

How do I approach this if I decide to go for it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shes hot, she tries to impress u with having a rich uncle,


wtf is wrong with you!?!? lol
 

Drumstick

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Whats your point?
 

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Usually both sides need to have a common interest... meaning she would want to be **** buddies too. By the sound of it, she genuinely likes you so it probably wont happen.
 

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She's hot AND horny? Hey I would even be able to put up with a *****y personality for awhile for that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.
 

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splinterkb said:
To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.

LMAO. I think I have a new catch phrase.
 
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