"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm skeptical... (advice needed)

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About a year ago, I met this girl who was kind of hot and definitely took a liking to me.

To make a long story short, I kino'd and charmed my way into making her wet whenever we talked. Everyone noticed that she obviously liked me and some guys even flat out said "WOW!" after a particularly good conversation I carried.

Contact ended at the end of the school year and we didn't see eachother again untill earlier this week. It bassically carried on right from where we left off -immediate kino and she said "you owe me prom!".

So, she is hot and she gets pretty horny if I work my magic proporly. Thats good.

Problem is, I'm not sure if I like her personality, so I would need to make this a fvck-buddy situation. I don't like her personality much because she would try to convince me she had a rich uncle and ****, and she seemed a bit clingy, almost attention whorish (which I know is somewhat responsible for her liking me so much -and it also means it will probably be easier to bang her, which I consider "taking advantage of" which is bad).

To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

How do I approach this if I decide to go for it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shes hot, she tries to impress u with having a rich uncle,


wtf is wrong with you!?!? lol
 

Drumstick

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Whats your point?
 

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Usually both sides need to have a common interest... meaning she would want to be **** buddies too. By the sound of it, she genuinely likes you so it probably wont happen.
 

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She's hot AND horny? Hey I would even be able to put up with a *****y personality for awhile for that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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splinterkb

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To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.
 

ARrocket

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splinterkb said:
To make a long story short, she's hot, horny, and I want nothing to do with her other than sex and a one dimensional flirty communication to fill in the gaps.

Welcome to the world of being a man. If you figure out how to accomplish that, please let us know.

LMAO. I think I have a new catch phrase.
 
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