"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok, after a year on this freaking site, i think im finally gona get some action tonight from a co worker and possibly her friend..

SHe's a 6.5.

But here is the thing, i was working one day and she came in to "see her other co worker".. and along with her was her hb8 friend. (i know she came in to see me)

We teased each other a bit.

Tonight for st patrciks day.. im going over to her house and her hb8 is there too! its just gona be us 3!!! I went and got condoms already.,,

Possibly a 3 some? FVCKKKK yeah! i hope so. Anyway, what usually happens when her friend is there with her for those who were in a similar situation before like mine. And should I bring some booze?

Thanks,
DJnoob

im leaving in 10 minutes,so respond fast!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Emm... you want to take booze go for a bottle of mescal, with the worm in it of course and remember to conceal the condoms... I would also tone down the excitement you might not even get laid tonight bro and a threesome is a tad ambitious... Good luck anyway.

Love

Amethyst
 
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Stay home, if it took you a year to (possibly) get laid after having the answers on how to drop a b!tches panties layed out for you I dont want the risk of you spreading your genes. Suppose I'm driving down the road in 18 years time and your offspring is coming in the opposite direction?
 
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Goodluck!!

There is no usual maybe it's going to be a threesome or maybe she sees you as a friend and just wants to hang out but let us know how it goes.....

No DON’T drink!
 
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Keep the condoms in your car. Trust me. The last thing you want is to jump the gun on a friendly invite and think you're going to be in a 3-some. This **** will carry over into work, and you'll never be the same around her again.

Read the body language, and don't show your poker face.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol... Bad Lev there is nothing wrong with a few drinks (Specially in St. Paddies day... take a couple of cans of Guinness as well), as long as you don't get paralytic or become an imbecile when drunk it should be fine. And mescal just oils things really because its made in a different way (like tequila) than normal boose it will not make you a wanker if taken in moderation.

I always drink a bit in social gatherings but its expected I'm a barman after all.

Love

Amethystos
 
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giver man.. giver anal!
 
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Stay home, if it took you a year to (possibly) get laid after having the answers on how to drop a b!tches panties layed out for you I dont want the risk of you spreading your genes. Suppose I'm driving down the road in 18 years time and your offspring is coming in the opposite direction?
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LMAO

congratulations.... remember there is a hell of a lot more to life than sex (even if it does cause it!)


anyone interested in taking bets on how long he lasts ??:p
 
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DJ you must master the art of Kegel and multi-orgasm.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What ever happened to the "Dont dip your pen in company ink" speel ? ... I guess everyone in here is just tossing that out the window ?
 
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No rules apply to the true ladies man... when it comes to the art of lady killing.

So boys pack up your shotguns we are going to irac

Amethyst
 
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amethyst said:
No rules apply to the true ladies man... when it comes to the art of lady killing.

So boys pack up your shotguns we are going to irac

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We'll c about that when she gives u a fuk , gets pregnant, and then rants to the whole company that you raped her or some sh1t and will demand a million .... Then you get fired and ur broke a$$ is on the streets ....

Obviously, at that point, I guess the military will be your only option one you lose the job...

-Laterz
 
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woah there , calm down buddy or you'll blow your load as soon as you stick her! you sound a tad bit too excited..take a few deep breaths and relax, i am serious. :)
take a shot just to relax and loosen you up- TAKE YOUR TIME, this is the
moment you been waiting for..enjoy it!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ha ha ha... Hey Cowboy in the bar I work they encourage relationships between workers. Man our staff night outings are like ****ing orgies im tellin’ ya...

Amethyst
 
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How about this: you don't GET LAID, you LAY. If you "get laid", the woman is USING YOU. Does that make you feel powerful and masculine?
 
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Was going to post advice but its all done now...How did it go?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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