"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Im probably heading for a ban

Status
Not open for further replies.
B

betheman

Banned
Joined
Nov 4, 2010
Messages
1,843
Reaction score
67
just to let others know, as yet I have as yet, received not one PM informing me my posts are otherwise out of order...not one.
but the cleanup act 2014, will ensue no doubt. keep the white knight dollars rolling guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

zekko

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,793
Reaction score
10,019
All this outrage is ridiculous. The guy broke the rules, plain and simple, anybody without blinders on can see that. It had nothing to do with white knights or his viewpoint. Anyway, he's already back, so I don't see what the big deal is.
 
speed dawg

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
LiveFreeX said:
What rule did he break?
Click to expand...
I'd like to see this too. I didn't see eye to eye with him on everything, but I thought he brought a necessary angle to the forum, especially as long as the libtards and white knights are going to be allowed to post here constantly. Need that balance. I never saw anything that should have gotten him banned. And ESPECIALLY telling, is that folks like Gaylan are the ones who supposedly made it happen, and they remain.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

J

Jaylan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 8, 2011
Messages
3,119
Reaction score
133
Actually you get yourself banned when you ignore and insult moderators and members. The guy creates sock accounts that call the moderators beta faggots. Are you really are wondering why he's banned?

Just move on and let it go.

Op I would say youre fine, but to stop bickering with particular people here. It makes it seem like you are picking a fight. Plus threads like this place you on everyones radar more than anything imo.
 
Atom Smasher

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,618
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
The OP is 49 years old and behaving like a hurt child throwing tantrums.

...49...

I'm hoping he quickly gets control of his emotions and puts things in perspective as all he's actually doing is revealing himself to all who are reading his rants.
 
U

user43770

Guest
Atom Smasher said:
The OP is 49 years old and behaving like a hurt child throwing tantrums.

...49...

I'm hoping he quickly gets control of his emotions and puts things in perspective as all he's actually doing is revealing himself to all who are reading his rants.
Click to expand...

Is there something wrong with being 49 and making rants?

Maybe we don't all have control like you, Atom Smasher.

Very mature of you to insult the OP, by the way. How old are you?
 
speed dawg

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
Jaylan said:
Are you really are wondering why he's banned?
Click to expand...
Yes. It hasn't been answered yet. I don't care about your opinion, I'd prefer to see the post(s) and judge for myself.

Jaylan said:
Just move on and let it go.
Click to expand...
H*ll no, pal. The libtard shaming mantra has no use here.

Jaylan said:
Op I would say youre fine, but to stop bickering with particular people here. It makes it seem like you are picking a fight. Plus threads like this place you on everyones radar more than anything imo.
Click to expand...
So now the biggest thread-killer on this site is giving advice. Shut the board down.
 
Atom Smasher

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,618
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
TyTe`EyEz said:
Is there something wrong with being 49 and making rants?

Maybe we don't all have control like you, Atom Smasher.

Very mature of you to insult the OP, by the way. How old are you?
Click to expand...
There's something wrong with a 49 year old being emotionally out of control.

Describing poor behavior and indicating that he is revealing himself publically is not immaturity but rather a reasoned answer to a baiting post and his repeated attempts to inflame.

Thread closed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,618
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
LOL, next time I close a thread I'll take some Geritol first...
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top