She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LiveFreeX said:What rule did he break?
I'd like to see this too. I didn't see eye to eye with him on everything, but I thought he brought a necessary angle to the forum, especially as long as the libtards and white knights are going to be allowed to post here constantly. Need that balance. I never saw anything that should have gotten him banned. And ESPECIALLY telling, is that folks like Gaylan are the ones who supposedly made it happen, and they remain.LiveFreeX said:What rule did he break?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Atom Smasher said:The OP is 49 years old and behaving like a hurt child throwing tantrums.
...49...
I'm hoping he quickly gets control of his emotions and puts things in perspective as all he's actually doing is revealing himself to all who are reading his rants.
Yes. It hasn't been answered yet. I don't care about your opinion, I'd prefer to see the post(s) and judge for myself.Jaylan said:Are you really are wondering why he's banned?
H*ll no, pal. The libtard shaming mantra has no use here.Jaylan said:Just move on and let it go.
So now the biggest thread-killer on this site is giving advice. Shut the board down.Jaylan said:Op I would say youre fine, but to stop bickering with particular people here. It makes it seem like you are picking a fight. Plus threads like this place you on everyones radar more than anything imo.
There's something wrong with a 49 year old being emotionally out of control.TyTe`EyEz said:Is there something wrong with being 49 and making rants?
Maybe we don't all have control like you, Atom Smasher.
Very mature of you to insult the OP, by the way. How old are you?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LMAO!!! I'm spreading this like Hep C.betheman said:white knight dollars
Alzheimer'sAtom Smasher said:Thread closed.