"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm Pissed

Cerwin Vega

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So finally after 5 months I banged an hb8.5, sweet!
she's a cool chick so I wanted to keep contact - long story short we scheduled a 2nd meetup at my place, and all of the sudden texts me "I can't make it tommorow :(" to which I replied "cool, no worries. We'll catch up soon.."

But...It's not cool. I'm angry. I waited a whole week for this meetup. I cleaned and bleached my entire house, bought a fancy expensive lube (that's right) and marinated some chicken breast for tomorrow, I'm super pissed!
Let alone FINALLY getting some action after hundreds of rejections, dozens of flakes and disappointments.

Now when I vented and poured my emotions out I feel more logical.

I won't text or call her until next week. If she contacts me I don't respond, even if I have absolutely nothing to do at the moment.

Most of you will tell me I need to go spin more plates, not give a damn etc but it's just like telling a person who doesn't know how to swim "it's simple! just try not to drown".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IBreatheSpears

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Not really, it's more like telling someone who doesn't know how to swim to move their arms and kick their legs. Sure, it's not detailed, but it is what you need to do.

In the meantime, I always suggest Stoic philosophy and meditation for curing poor emotional regulation.
 
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