I'm On Day 5!!

[Longview]

ok i havent spoken to you lot about this at all, been looking at this forum for a while, havent posted much yet.

But theres this girl we went out for like 7 months and she completely messed me up, i mean i was such a mess it wasnt even funny.

She is such a attention seeker and all i could do was act afc all the time, well we finished in march but ever since then she has had a hold over me, i mean you all know the same the kinda girl that hangs up the phone knowing you will ring back with an "I'm sorry" line.

Well i finally took action and have completely ignored her for 5 days now, erased all her messages she sent, never answered my phone and kept myself busy, films, games, friends that kinda thing.

But i have this really bad feeling im gonna crack soon, i can feel myself wanting to call her.

Just need to know would i be doing the wrong thing in calling her, seeing how she sent me right over the edge and all!!

I dont want to go into how bad i was its not relavant at all!

Just need help thats all!

 

[wheelin&dealin]

I'm not gonna read your post but I hope that somebody else does.

Best of luck,

 

[Longview]

Well its been a few months now.

And have to say i feel great about all this now!!!

Thanks for people advice on this site (not in this post but there was others)

 

[Reto]

The only thing that cures oneitis is self discipline (not to call) and time...

Good job. Don't give in...

 

[Black Bahindian]

Good luck on the ganji game.

 

[Knicknack]

thanks for the update. i wish more people would do this.

 

[Longview01]

Well im on year 7 now haha

Cant belive what an idiot I was for this girl back then (she got really fat as well!!)

Anyone know why I cant post with my old account?

 

[mikeyb]

There are two "easy" ways to get over a breakup. 1) Meet a new girl; 2) Focus on a hobby (or take a new one up). If you don't have anything else important going on in your life it's really hard to let go.

For example, when my last LTR went sour, I took up cycling. Been doing it ever since and I spent last summer riding in the Alps instead of worrying about having dumped my now-ex.

 

[Longview01]

There are two "easy" ways to get over a breakup. 1) Meet a new girl; 2) Focus on a hobby (or take a new one up). If you don't have anything else important going on in your life it's really hard to let go.

For example, when my last LTR went sour, I took up cycling. Been doing it ever since and I spent last summer riding in the Alps instead of worrying about having dumped my now-ex.

Man i know lol

I posted this 7 years ago

Just giving an update

 

[mikeyb]

My bad didn't look at the date...or your last reply

 

[Longview01]

haha its ok

So anyway, im back and i've just come out of a LTR (5 years) and have almost completely forgotton everything I learnt all those years ago.

Time to read the bible and start all over again I guess