"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im Not Trying To Get Into Your Pants Or Anthing

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Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
 
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I'd suggest against it, don't verbally suggest sex with women, it's just a lack of class in their eyes, although they might consider it themselves.

Again it's just human psychology. Imagine you are in a shop, browsing, looking for something that maybe you will buy. Then the sales guy/girl comes along, "hi, how can I help you? I'm not trying to force you to buy anything by the way", would you be pleased?:whistle:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJTJ said:
Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
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Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
 
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white sox bill said:
Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
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Reason I asked was I was thinking on using this line one a old FB Iam trying to hook up with again
 
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If she asks, "are you trying to get into my pants".... Say "listen, if I wanted to get into your pants, I'd take them from your hamper." I used this once, the girl laughed.
 
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Oh yeah, she'll really believe you if you tell her that... :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cableguy said:
I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
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AFC talk....beware
 
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