"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Im Not Trying To Get Into Your Pants Or Anthing

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DJTJ

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Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
 
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Le Parisien

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I'd suggest against it, don't verbally suggest sex with women, it's just a lack of class in their eyes, although they might consider it themselves.

Again it's just human psychology. Imagine you are in a shop, browsing, looking for something that maybe you will buy. Then the sales guy/girl comes along, "hi, how can I help you? I'm not trying to force you to buy anything by the way", would you be pleased?:whistle:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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white sox bill

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DJTJ said:
Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
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Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
 
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white sox bill

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white sox bill said:
Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
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Reason I asked was I was thinking on using this line one a old FB Iam trying to hook up with again
 
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If she asks, "are you trying to get into my pants".... Say "listen, if I wanted to get into your pants, I'd take them from your hamper." I used this once, the girl laughed.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh yeah, she'll really believe you if you tell her that... :rolleyes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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Cableguy said:
I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
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AFC talk....beware
 
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