"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im Not Trying To Get Into Your Pants Or Anthing

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Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
 
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I'd suggest against it, don't verbally suggest sex with women, it's just a lack of class in their eyes, although they might consider it themselves.

Again it's just human psychology. Imagine you are in a shop, browsing, looking for something that maybe you will buy. Then the sales guy/girl comes along, "hi, how can I help you? I'm not trying to force you to buy anything by the way", would you be pleased?:whistle:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJTJ said:
Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
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Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
 
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white sox bill said:
Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
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Reason I asked was I was thinking on using this line one a old FB Iam trying to hook up with again
 
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If she asks, "are you trying to get into my pants".... Say "listen, if I wanted to get into your pants, I'd take them from your hamper." I used this once, the girl laughed.
 
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Oh yeah, she'll really believe you if you tell her that... :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cableguy said:
I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
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AFC talk....beware
 
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