"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
 
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I'd suggest against it, don't verbally suggest sex with women, it's just a lack of class in their eyes, although they might consider it themselves.

Again it's just human psychology. Imagine you are in a shop, browsing, looking for something that maybe you will buy. Then the sales guy/girl comes along, "hi, how can I help you? I'm not trying to force you to buy anything by the way", would you be pleased?:whistle:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJTJ said:
Theres this chick Im persuing,,, she flirts but seems a bit reluctant if ya know what I meen...
Im gonna ask her out.... Do you reckon slipping in the line "IM NOT TRYING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS OR ANTHING). (EVEn THOUGH i AM) is a good or bad move????

@ work tonigt I asked for her number & she got mine & saud sed' sms me............. should I forget this chick...
She's a nice girl though & would prolly hook me up with her friends??????
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Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
 
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white sox bill said:
Would it work better if youv'e already slept w/her?
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Reason I asked was I was thinking on using this line one a old FB Iam trying to hook up with again
 
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If she asks, "are you trying to get into my pants".... Say "listen, if I wanted to get into your pants, I'd take them from your hamper." I used this once, the girl laughed.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh yeah, she'll really believe you if you tell her that... :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cableguy said:
I wouldn't recommend saying any of that stuff. If you want to ask her then ask her out.
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AFC talk....beware
 
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