Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I'm not so sure about this girl anymore..
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
You need to tell her how you really feel. You know, one of those "heart to heart" talks. Take her out to a nice dinner at a nice restaurant, candlelit, dressed up, the violins playing, have flowers and chocolate ready, and if possible, rent a limo. Pay the hostess/server a good tip to ensure a good table/view.
When you are there, tell her you really think she's special, and if she would only honor you by giving you a good chance to prove to her how good you are for her. By then she will realize you are not a jerk/player or like any of the rest of the guys she thinks she really likes.
Tell her you will change and do whatever it takes to make that work.
If this doesn't work, then just pour it on very heavy and thick, and do more, to a larger scale of what I just told you.
GOL
46and2aheadofme
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He was being sarcastic.doback said:I thought that was the last possible thing you were every supposed to do?
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Yeah man,Gangster of Love was just messing with you. (I hope.)doback said:I thought that was the last possible thing you were every supposed to do?
You really didn't give too much information about the girl,or how long you two have known and been around each other.
However,if she's ALWAYS negative,ALWAYS down,ALWAYS seems to have some problem or issue going on in her life,then it's just a matter of time before she makes YOU the problem or issue. A woman should be a positive addition to your life. If you two being in a relationship drags YOU down,then just forget about her. There's a million girls out there. Find someone who you can be happy with.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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