"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm not so sure about this girl anymore..
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
You need to tell her how you really feel. You know, one of those "heart to heart" talks. Take her out to a nice dinner at a nice restaurant, candlelit, dressed up, the violins playing, have flowers and chocolate ready, and if possible, rent a limo. Pay the hostess/server a good tip to ensure a good table/view.
When you are there, tell her you really think she's special, and if she would only honor you by giving you a good chance to prove to her how good you are for her. By then she will realize you are not a jerk/player or like any of the rest of the guys she thinks she really likes.
Tell her you will change and do whatever it takes to make that work.
If this doesn't work, then just pour it on very heavy and thick, and do more, to a larger scale of what I just told you.
GOL
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He was being sarcastic.doback said:I thought that was the last possible thing you were every supposed to do?
Igetit!
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Yeah man,Gangster of Love was just messing with you. (I hope.)doback said:I thought that was the last possible thing you were every supposed to do?
You really didn't give too much information about the girl,or how long you two have known and been around each other.
However,if she's ALWAYS negative,ALWAYS down,ALWAYS seems to have some problem or issue going on in her life,then it's just a matter of time before she makes YOU the problem or issue. A woman should be a positive addition to your life. If you two being in a relationship drags YOU down,then just forget about her. There's a million girls out there. Find someone who you can be happy with.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PimpOfTheSouth
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