Mate nothing wrong with the facials. Hunt Asian chickies especially SEAs height problem solved. You just got to get out there and try a bunch of different activities and consider it part of learning about your new city. Yoga dance Pilates art classes cooking classes karaoke nights Tai chi there's plenty of options that have good ratios. You'll find something you enjoy it'll just take a while. Enter start getting known in your Neighborhood that takes a while too.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm not attracting any women but I'm happy with my life
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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What are you smoking son?
If you're bald and patchy......mac 3 your dome.
How old are you? you're dressed like a teenage boy....
Those chunky trainers with the white socks......and denim shorts look horrendous.......
You can still dress casual but smart. If you are wearing shorts (like in the picture), go for casual chino shorts with boat shoes or even the casual
canvas shoes (trainers are for the gym) if you are wearing boat shoes or similar don't wear normal socks....wear the ankle less ones that
can't be seen....
Shoes say everything about you. Those that wear shoes that scream "duffus" unsurprisingly are duffuses.
Inform yourself a bit on basic style...
http://www.revistagq.com/?international
Also, your body language is really negative in that photo. Granted it's a photo where you are only posing there....but still....the arms folded like that and the expression on your face gives me the impression that you are really not comfortable with yourself
28.
What do you think being comfortable with yourself feels like?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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you're also in good shape, op just needs to hit the gym, he looks like he hasnt gotten off the couch since high school