"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm not attracting any women but I'm happy with my life

ubercat

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Mate nothing wrong with the facials. Hunt Asian chickies especially SEAs height problem solved. You just got to get out there and try a bunch of different activities and consider it part of learning about your new city. Yoga dance Pilates art classes cooking classes karaoke nights Tai chi there's plenty of options that have good ratios. You'll find something you enjoy it'll just take a while. Enter start getting known in your Neighborhood that takes a while too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Reykhel

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Here I be.
If you're bald and patchy......mac 3 your dome.

How old are you? you're dressed like a teenage boy....

Those chunky trainers with the white socks......and denim shorts look horrendous.......

You can still dress casual but smart. If you are wearing shorts (like in the picture), go for casual chino shorts with boat shoes or even the casual
canvas shoes (trainers are for the gym) if you are wearing boat shoes or similar don't wear normal socks....wear the ankle less ones that
can't be seen....

Shoes say everything about you. Those that wear shoes that scream "duffus" unsurprisingly are duffuses.

Inform yourself a bit on basic style...
http://www.revistagq.com/?international

Also, your body language is really negative in that photo. Granted it's a photo where you are only posing there....but still....the arms folded like that and the expression on your face gives me the impression that you are really not comfortable with yourself
 

DJDeMarco

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If you're bald and patchy......mac 3 your dome.

How old are you? you're dressed like a teenage boy....

Those chunky trainers with the white socks......and denim shorts look horrendous.......

You can still dress casual but smart. If you are wearing shorts (like in the picture), go for casual chino shorts with boat shoes or even the casual
canvas shoes (trainers are for the gym) if you are wearing boat shoes or similar don't wear normal socks....wear the ankle less ones that
can't be seen....

Shoes say everything about you. Those that wear shoes that scream "duffus" unsurprisingly are duffuses.

Inform yourself a bit on basic style...
http://www.revistagq.com/?international

Also, your body language is really negative in that photo. Granted it's a photo where you are only posing there....but still....the arms folded like that and the expression on your face gives me the impression that you are really not comfortable with yourself
28.
What do you think being comfortable with yourself feels like?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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foreverAFC

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I'm only 5'9 (which could be considered short) and I'm bald....but chicks routinely say I look good. I won't know where to start with recommendations until I see a pic of you. I doubt you are someone that's just "ugly", but I can't make physical recommendations without a pic.
you're also in good shape, op just needs to hit the gym, he looks like he hasnt gotten off the couch since high school
 
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