"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm not attracting any women but I'm happy with my life

ubercat

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Mate nothing wrong with the facials. Hunt Asian chickies especially SEAs height problem solved. You just got to get out there and try a bunch of different activities and consider it part of learning about your new city. Yoga dance Pilates art classes cooking classes karaoke nights Tai chi there's plenty of options that have good ratios. You'll find something you enjoy it'll just take a while. Enter start getting known in your Neighborhood that takes a while too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here I be.
If you're bald and patchy......mac 3 your dome.

How old are you? you're dressed like a teenage boy....

Those chunky trainers with the white socks......and denim shorts look horrendous.......

You can still dress casual but smart. If you are wearing shorts (like in the picture), go for casual chino shorts with boat shoes or even the casual
canvas shoes (trainers are for the gym) if you are wearing boat shoes or similar don't wear normal socks....wear the ankle less ones that
can't be seen....

Shoes say everything about you. Those that wear shoes that scream "duffus" unsurprisingly are duffuses.

Inform yourself a bit on basic style...
http://www.revistagq.com/?international

Also, your body language is really negative in that photo. Granted it's a photo where you are only posing there....but still....the arms folded like that and the expression on your face gives me the impression that you are really not comfortable with yourself
 

DJDeMarco

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If you're bald and patchy......mac 3 your dome.

How old are you? you're dressed like a teenage boy....

Those chunky trainers with the white socks......and denim shorts look horrendous.......

You can still dress casual but smart. If you are wearing shorts (like in the picture), go for casual chino shorts with boat shoes or even the casual
canvas shoes (trainers are for the gym) if you are wearing boat shoes or similar don't wear normal socks....wear the ankle less ones that
can't be seen....

Shoes say everything about you. Those that wear shoes that scream "duffus" unsurprisingly are duffuses.

Inform yourself a bit on basic style...
http://www.revistagq.com/?international

Also, your body language is really negative in that photo. Granted it's a photo where you are only posing there....but still....the arms folded like that and the expression on your face gives me the impression that you are really not comfortable with yourself
28.
What do you think being comfortable with yourself feels like?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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foreverAFC

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I'm only 5'9 (which could be considered short) and I'm bald....but chicks routinely say I look good. I won't know where to start with recommendations until I see a pic of you. I doubt you are someone that's just "ugly", but I can't make physical recommendations without a pic.
you're also in good shape, op just needs to hit the gym, he looks like he hasnt gotten off the couch since high school
 
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