Mate nothing wrong with the facials. Hunt Asian chickies especially SEAs height problem solved. You just got to get out there and try a bunch of different activities and consider it part of learning about your new city. Yoga dance Pilates art classes cooking classes karaoke nights Tai chi there's plenty of options that have good ratios. You'll find something you enjoy it'll just take a while. Enter start getting known in your Neighborhood that takes a while too.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm not attracting any women but I'm happy with my life
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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What are you smoking son?
If you're bald and patchy......mac 3 your dome.
How old are you? you're dressed like a teenage boy....
Those chunky trainers with the white socks......and denim shorts look horrendous.......
You can still dress casual but smart. If you are wearing shorts (like in the picture), go for casual chino shorts with boat shoes or even the casual
canvas shoes (trainers are for the gym) if you are wearing boat shoes or similar don't wear normal socks....wear the ankle less ones that
can't be seen....
Shoes say everything about you. Those that wear shoes that scream "duffus" unsurprisingly are duffuses.
Inform yourself a bit on basic style...
http://www.revistagq.com/?international
Also, your body language is really negative in that photo. Granted it's a photo where you are only posing there....but still....the arms folded like that and the expression on your face gives me the impression that you are really not comfortable with yourself
28.
What do you think being comfortable with yourself feels like?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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you're also in good shape, op just needs to hit the gym, he looks like he hasnt gotten off the couch since high school