Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm moving to Eastern Europe

MatureDJ

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I'm going to be an English instructor. I have my expenses in the USA down to a very low level (basically homeowner's insurance on very cheap house with no mortgage, and some cash to pay a guy to cut the grass every once in a while), and have a decent IRA that I could tap for a little here and there, although I hope to be earning enough to pay the bills while I am there. And just getting out of Chapter 7 bankruptcy has cleared away all of my other expenses. :cheer:

I've totally given up on the American dating scene. Maybe some men here have better luck with American women, but I haven't been able to scratch anything not obese, or with a brood of rugrats, etc., since about '98, whereas in my forays in Eastern Europe since then, I have had a great social life. And as my consulting business has failed in this cr@ppy economy, I see no reason to stick around working some stupid low paying job so I can get rejected by obese, b1tchy women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good luck! Let us know how it turns out. You should do a rooshv styled blog. rooshv.com
 

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hopefully, I will be going to Europe for a year and a half or longer also!
 

Desert Fox

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uh I hope you're not going to europe for their awesome economy bro... cuz it ain't awesome at all there either.
 

MatureDJ

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Desert Fox said:
uh I hope you're not going to europe for their awesome economy bro... cuz it ain't awesome at all there either.
For me, it seems to be better. Like I said, I can get work at about $15/hr. The Wal-Mart only pays $8/hr. I am otherwise unemployable.

And oh yes, I'm not going there for the economy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MatureDJ said:
I'm going to be an English instructor. I have my expenses in the USA down to a very low level (basically homeowner's insurance on very cheap house with no mortgage, and some cash to pay a guy to cut the grass every once in a while), and have a decent IRA that I could tap for a little here and there, although I hope to be earning enough to pay the bills while I am there.
If I could ever secure employment in Eastern Europe, which I have been thinking about, I would so do it, so good for you. But one thing to bear in mind, if you don't already know, is that you will be hit with double taxation—you will still pay income taxes to Uncle Sam unless you renounce your citizenship.
 

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MatureDJ, I wish you nothing but the best on your future adventures abroad.

I too, have thought about becoming an English instructor, and have done much research on this career choice.

I think, you have an exciting future ahead, and you will truly not regret one moment on this journey of yours.

All the best, and enjoy every moment of it. :up: BTW, the women are beautiful over there... Don't get too spoiled. :)
 

MatureDJ

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Rogue said:
If I could ever secure employment in Eastern Europe, which I have been thinking about, I would so do it, so good for you. But one thing to bear in mind, if you don't already know, is that you will be hit with double taxation—you will still pay income taxes to Uncle Sam unless you renounce your citizenship.
If the income is reported. :D
 

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Like warrior said make a blog on this, will be really interesting to follow.
 

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Good luck. I'd be interested in reading a blog and maybe seeing some pictures of what the other side of the world has to offer.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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