"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm moving to Eastern Europe

MatureDJ

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I'm going to be an English instructor. I have my expenses in the USA down to a very low level (basically homeowner's insurance on very cheap house with no mortgage, and some cash to pay a guy to cut the grass every once in a while), and have a decent IRA that I could tap for a little here and there, although I hope to be earning enough to pay the bills while I am there. And just getting out of Chapter 7 bankruptcy has cleared away all of my other expenses. :cheer:

I've totally given up on the American dating scene. Maybe some men here have better luck with American women, but I haven't been able to scratch anything not obese, or with a brood of rugrats, etc., since about '98, whereas in my forays in Eastern Europe since then, I have had a great social life. And as my consulting business has failed in this cr@ppy economy, I see no reason to stick around working some stupid low paying job so I can get rejected by obese, b1tchy women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good luck! Let us know how it turns out. You should do a rooshv styled blog. rooshv.com
 

horaholic

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hopefully, I will be going to Europe for a year and a half or longer also!
 

Desert Fox

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uh I hope you're not going to europe for their awesome economy bro... cuz it ain't awesome at all there either.
 

MatureDJ

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Desert Fox said:
uh I hope you're not going to europe for their awesome economy bro... cuz it ain't awesome at all there either.
For me, it seems to be better. Like I said, I can get work at about $15/hr. The Wal-Mart only pays $8/hr. I am otherwise unemployable.

And oh yes, I'm not going there for the economy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MatureDJ said:
I'm going to be an English instructor. I have my expenses in the USA down to a very low level (basically homeowner's insurance on very cheap house with no mortgage, and some cash to pay a guy to cut the grass every once in a while), and have a decent IRA that I could tap for a little here and there, although I hope to be earning enough to pay the bills while I am there.
If I could ever secure employment in Eastern Europe, which I have been thinking about, I would so do it, so good for you. But one thing to bear in mind, if you don't already know, is that you will be hit with double taxation—you will still pay income taxes to Uncle Sam unless you renounce your citizenship.
 

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MatureDJ, I wish you nothing but the best on your future adventures abroad.

I too, have thought about becoming an English instructor, and have done much research on this career choice.

I think, you have an exciting future ahead, and you will truly not regret one moment on this journey of yours.

All the best, and enjoy every moment of it. :up: BTW, the women are beautiful over there... Don't get too spoiled. :)
 

MatureDJ

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Rogue said:
If I could ever secure employment in Eastern Europe, which I have been thinking about, I would so do it, so good for you. But one thing to bear in mind, if you don't already know, is that you will be hit with double taxation—you will still pay income taxes to Uncle Sam unless you renounce your citizenship.
If the income is reported. :D
 

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Like warrior said make a blog on this, will be really interesting to follow.
 

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Good luck. I'd be interested in reading a blog and maybe seeing some pictures of what the other side of the world has to offer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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