"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm looking for a mentor in the San Diego area

AJTD

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I'm an older newbie DJ, late 40's. Interested in finding a mentor in my area that can help me out some. Advice, suggestions, maybe sarging once in awhile. Prefer around my age.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thefonz

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The guys who are good enough to mentor won't just come out and help you for no reason. Usually you have to offer them something like beers, women, or some skillsets that you can teach. Give and take my friend.

My advice would be since you live in the San Diego area to find a bootcamp program. They are expensive but well worth it.
 
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