"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm just disappointed...

BaronOfHair

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But the double standard where men had to take responsibility for drinking, and women didn't, was frustrating.
This particular subject is what it is, cliche as such statements may sound... There will NEVER be a day in which a drunken/dope filled ONS with some broad we met 10 minutes prior doesn't also carry the danger of her claiming afterwards: "He plied me with intoxicants"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This particular subject is what it is, cliche as such statements may sound... There will NEVER be a day in which a drunken/dope filled ONS with some broad we met 10 minutes prior doesn't also carry the danger of her claiming afterwards: "He plied me with intoxicants"
True. I'm just saying there was a period there when it was exceptionally risky, and the pendulum had swung too far in one direction.
 

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danger of her claiming afterwards: "He plied me with intoxicants"
False rape allegations are rare (2%-11%). They do not involve actual sex, consensual or otherwise. Instead, the women fabricate cases for alibis (Cathleen Crowell, Tawana Brawley), money (Brian Banks), or attention (Rolling Stone's Jackie). False allegations might not involve accusations. Jackie refused to name her assailant. Other women just say a masked stranger assaulted her and fled. So your actual risk is low, and has nothing to do with your consensual love-life.
 

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@klh "False rape allegations are rare (2%-11%)"

SOME avaliable data suggests. Questions have been raised regarding the methodologies by which this data was collected, the manner in which some jurisdictions define "false allegations/accusations", etc etc. Point still stands:

Bedding intoxicated women one has just met has always been, and will continue to be, ill-advised
 
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