"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in total love with this girl.

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So there's this girl in my class. She's so cute, and she's got this wicked personality and I just feel...great when she talks to me. Lately..she's been talking to this other guy, and I want to beat the crap out of him because she's my girlfriend, even though she never said anything, and we've never flirted (I dunno how). Can I have some help.


First, that was a joke. For all you fuckers that read this in hopes of flaming some poor guy wanting help, here are the four words that put together, should be shoved up your ass. Shut The Fuck Up.

Honestly, I would love to have fun with the mod tools with some of you people for all of the absolutely retarded replies to questions AND people that don't deserve it. No matter the topic title, or how horrible the question is, don't be a lamer and flame your asshole out.

Please.....grow up and act respectfully. You are all '(young) adults' by age, act like it.












...and now I get to watch all of the replies so I can then pursue their old posts of how much of a AFC they once were and how they flame the same situations now.

Careful now with those smoking guns, they could backfire on you just as easy. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't understand this thread. :confused:
 

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-_-, just look at other threads and how badly people are saying 'DAFS' or 'STFU' or 'You're such a idiot.."...among other excessively unnecessary things.

Then read this thread again and go 'Oh...so that's why this thread is like this'

Maybe people will grow up if this get's stickied for a bit.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by lets_do_this
I would have just said, "read the dj bible" :D

Don't forget 10% reading 90% field work. ;) ;) :woo:
 

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well it depends, u dont wanna come off too ****y by over doing the C&F but u dont wanna be a an AFC either
 

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WOW, instead of writing STFU, you wrote it out DOCS. What's the difference? As far as flaming poor guys, sometimes it is not to flame the guy but to get him to to DAFS( I think you were alluding to me). By asking questions that have already been answered, you just pollute this site. I have already posted about flaming and constructive criticism of this site and memeber's maturity levels, so what you are saying isn't anything new.

Your aggressive attitude won't change anything.

And with the DAFS thing, at least one of the mods agees with me, so I doubt I am thinking in the wrong direction with this advice.

Saying "read the DJ bible" has been said many times, and quite frankly, seems to be ineffective.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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increase ur cardio and read the dj bible

but seriously :down: @ you for getting that pissed at internet stuff. you lost.
 

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i can't believe anybody actually comes on here and says "STFU." the only people i ever hear say that are the kinds of people who spend all their time internet-gaming like halo online or something. video games are all well and good, but have a life outside of your computer people. learn how to stop being so damn lazy and just type it out.
 

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I think some people need a good kick in the butt. But actually, you're right. If you do insult some pvssy-whipped champ, you should try to do so constructively.
 

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There's new people all the time, if Iw as new and I wrote about something like the first bit..and I got flamed with DAFS (newbie: what would that mean?), you AFc, you loser, lamer, etc...I dont' think I'd have a good attitude for this site. Would you not agree?

Read the bible, that is acceptable..it's not demoralizing to say that and I'm not complaining at people that say that. It's every other retard that wants to shit on other people in hopes of looking superior..or to use a power-rush against some poor guy. I'm sorry, but even in my short time here, I've watching the flaming assholes take over.

As for DAFS, I wouldn't see that as nice...you know when someone asks to find something on the net and someone else puts up a google search query and a link to a site for them...that's really cool.

Maybe what should be put up is a TOS..and then shall it be enforced...this activity could grind to a dead halt and we can get non-flamer's helping us. And if you are so concerned about polluting the forums with newbie questions, why not create that newbie forum instead. Since discussion is the first on the list, take a wild guess where people flock to?

Just my 2 cents and a rant.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've been flamed TONS of times since I became a member of this site. I got flamed when I was a newbie DJ, I got flamed as a senoir and I still get flamed as a vetern member.

However along with those flame post are people who put in helpful and constructive advice. So being the logical person that I am I choose to ignore the flame post (though from time to time I like to poke a little fun at those whoa are too big for their britches:D ) and only respond to those who are here to aid me. As a mature adult it's OUR responsibility to understand that people are going to have their opinions and by not responding to the nimrods, and listening to the others will we prosper from our ventures.

If anybody here is too thin skinned to ward of faceless people on the internet who throw baseless insults, then there's no reason for them to socilize with the outside world anyway because believe me it gets MUCH worse then that in real time.
 

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Well aware of the real world. I've seen the fair share of biatches.

You can't solve something (newbies, flamers) without having somewhere to start. (newbie forum, mod control)
 
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