"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm in total love with this girl.

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So there's this girl in my class. She's so cute, and she's got this wicked personality and I just feel...great when she talks to me. Lately..she's been talking to this other guy, and I want to beat the crap out of him because she's my girlfriend, even though she never said anything, and we've never flirted (I dunno how). Can I have some help.


First, that was a joke. For all you fuckers that read this in hopes of flaming some poor guy wanting help, here are the four words that put together, should be shoved up your ass. Shut The Fuck Up.

Honestly, I would love to have fun with the mod tools with some of you people for all of the absolutely retarded replies to questions AND people that don't deserve it. No matter the topic title, or how horrible the question is, don't be a lamer and flame your asshole out.

Please.....grow up and act respectfully. You are all '(young) adults' by age, act like it.












...and now I get to watch all of the replies so I can then pursue their old posts of how much of a AFC they once were and how they flame the same situations now.

Careful now with those smoking guns, they could backfire on you just as easy. ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't understand this thread. :confused:
 

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-_-, just look at other threads and how badly people are saying 'DAFS' or 'STFU' or 'You're such a idiot.."...among other excessively unnecessary things.

Then read this thread again and go 'Oh...so that's why this thread is like this'

Maybe people will grow up if this get's stickied for a bit.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by lets_do_this
I would have just said, "read the dj bible" :D

Don't forget 10% reading 90% field work. ;) ;) :woo:
 

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well it depends, u dont wanna come off too ****y by over doing the C&F but u dont wanna be a an AFC either
 

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WOW, instead of writing STFU, you wrote it out DOCS. What's the difference? As far as flaming poor guys, sometimes it is not to flame the guy but to get him to to DAFS( I think you were alluding to me). By asking questions that have already been answered, you just pollute this site. I have already posted about flaming and constructive criticism of this site and memeber's maturity levels, so what you are saying isn't anything new.

Your aggressive attitude won't change anything.

And with the DAFS thing, at least one of the mods agees with me, so I doubt I am thinking in the wrong direction with this advice.

Saying "read the DJ bible" has been said many times, and quite frankly, seems to be ineffective.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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increase ur cardio and read the dj bible

but seriously :down: @ you for getting that pissed at internet stuff. you lost.
 

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i can't believe anybody actually comes on here and says "STFU." the only people i ever hear say that are the kinds of people who spend all their time internet-gaming like halo online or something. video games are all well and good, but have a life outside of your computer people. learn how to stop being so damn lazy and just type it out.
 

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I think some people need a good kick in the butt. But actually, you're right. If you do insult some pvssy-whipped champ, you should try to do so constructively.
 

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There's new people all the time, if Iw as new and I wrote about something like the first bit..and I got flamed with DAFS (newbie: what would that mean?), you AFc, you loser, lamer, etc...I dont' think I'd have a good attitude for this site. Would you not agree?

Read the bible, that is acceptable..it's not demoralizing to say that and I'm not complaining at people that say that. It's every other retard that wants to shit on other people in hopes of looking superior..or to use a power-rush against some poor guy. I'm sorry, but even in my short time here, I've watching the flaming assholes take over.

As for DAFS, I wouldn't see that as nice...you know when someone asks to find something on the net and someone else puts up a google search query and a link to a site for them...that's really cool.

Maybe what should be put up is a TOS..and then shall it be enforced...this activity could grind to a dead halt and we can get non-flamer's helping us. And if you are so concerned about polluting the forums with newbie questions, why not create that newbie forum instead. Since discussion is the first on the list, take a wild guess where people flock to?

Just my 2 cents and a rant.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've been flamed TONS of times since I became a member of this site. I got flamed when I was a newbie DJ, I got flamed as a senoir and I still get flamed as a vetern member.

However along with those flame post are people who put in helpful and constructive advice. So being the logical person that I am I choose to ignore the flame post (though from time to time I like to poke a little fun at those whoa are too big for their britches:D ) and only respond to those who are here to aid me. As a mature adult it's OUR responsibility to understand that people are going to have their opinions and by not responding to the nimrods, and listening to the others will we prosper from our ventures.

If anybody here is too thin skinned to ward of faceless people on the internet who throw baseless insults, then there's no reason for them to socilize with the outside world anyway because believe me it gets MUCH worse then that in real time.
 

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Well aware of the real world. I've seen the fair share of biatches.

You can't solve something (newbies, flamers) without having somewhere to start. (newbie forum, mod control)
 
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