"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm in over my head.

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Thank you SoSuave.

I'm unofficially dating the girl of my dreams right now. I've never dated a girl that is smarter or more literate than me, combined with her hotness.

And, you helped more than you hindered. I'd type it all up, but is it really necessary? :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A girl who is literate, sounds like you have a keeper because this seems to be becoming increasingly rare these days!
 
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hahahhaa, nice one seagull. And it seems that over email or sms, girls suddenly become much less literate. "I hv 2 wrk 2moro so mayb we shuld meet up on wed?" :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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grr said:
Thank you SoSuave.

I'm unofficially dating the girl of my dreams right now. I've never dated a girl that is smarter or more literate than me, combined with her hotness.

And, you helped more than you hindered. I'd type it all up, but is it really necessary? :)
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Oh, you welcome! I am glad all my help and advice has payed off for you! :D
 
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"unoffically" she's taking in 3 other c0cks and doesnt wanna commit to you ;)

joking.. good job :)
 
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