"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in over my head.

grr

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Thank you SoSuave.

I'm unofficially dating the girl of my dreams right now. I've never dated a girl that is smarter or more literate than me, combined with her hotness.

And, you helped more than you hindered. I'd type it all up, but is it really necessary? :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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seagull

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A girl who is literate, sounds like you have a keeper because this seems to be becoming increasingly rare these days!
 

lebRambo

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hahahhaa, nice one seagull. And it seems that over email or sms, girls suddenly become much less literate. "I hv 2 wrk 2moro so mayb we shuld meet up on wed?" :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gangster Of Love

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grr said:
Thank you SoSuave.

I'm unofficially dating the girl of my dreams right now. I've never dated a girl that is smarter or more literate than me, combined with her hotness.

And, you helped more than you hindered. I'd type it all up, but is it really necessary? :)
Oh, you welcome! I am glad all my help and advice has payed off for you! :D
 

sav

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"unoffically" she's taking in 3 other c0cks and doesnt wanna commit to you ;)

joking.. good job :)
 
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