"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm in over my head.

grr

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Thank you SoSuave.

I'm unofficially dating the girl of my dreams right now. I've never dated a girl that is smarter or more literate than me, combined with her hotness.

And, you helped more than you hindered. I'd type it all up, but is it really necessary? :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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seagull

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A girl who is literate, sounds like you have a keeper because this seems to be becoming increasingly rare these days!
 

lebRambo

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hahahhaa, nice one seagull. And it seems that over email or sms, girls suddenly become much less literate. "I hv 2 wrk 2moro so mayb we shuld meet up on wed?" :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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grr said:
Thank you SoSuave.

I'm unofficially dating the girl of my dreams right now. I've never dated a girl that is smarter or more literate than me, combined with her hotness.

And, you helped more than you hindered. I'd type it all up, but is it really necessary? :)
Oh, you welcome! I am glad all my help and advice has payed off for you! :D
 

sav

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"unoffically" she's taking in 3 other c0cks and doesnt wanna commit to you ;)

joking.. good job :)
 
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