I feel so alone no one to ask for advice . The guy I have been seeing I like a lot we are having a no strings fling . I have known him on n off since jan , first time round it ended over an argument but we sorted it out and met again . he is being strange again the other week I had a night out and he asked twice about it and started hinting if I had met someone I said no I'm not like that , this annoyed me because first time round he used to be jealous , then he started to be cold with me I then asked if he wants to end this we will , he said he feels confused and if He someone and vise Versa he would feel bad I said it's ok it's just fun !! A few days later I asked would we never see each other again and he said I never said we would never meet again . He is confusing as I enjoy it but he makes me feel confused what should I do ? I didn't message him did two days after and he messaged me asking if I'm ok . If he doesn't want this why can't he say then move on ? He avoids them questions ... Confused :-(
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm in a difficult situation I need some friendly advice :-(
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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But he probably thinks that you are.Bosscatxx said:
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Then you need to cut him loose and move on with your life. This is the advice we would give to any man who had oneitis for a chick.Bosscatxx said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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He's caught in limbo. On one hand, he's not happy or perhaps he's bored/frustrated. On the other hand, he doesn't want to give up the sex.Bosscatxx said:
A lot of people stay trapped in FWB arrangements for that reason.
"It sucks, but I least I'm getting laid" so I'll continue lol.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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He doesn't think you're attractive enough and you find him more attractive. Stop trying to date out of your league, hypergamous slut lol.
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There is no reason for him to commit to you because you don't offer anything.
He is f*cking you and he wants to keep doing so.. but that's really all he wants. He doesn't see the value in you.
Its your choice to either accept your position as a plate OR to find a pandering beta fag who will give you the attention you "deserve".
He is f*cking you and he wants to keep doing so.. but that's really all he wants. He doesn't see the value in you.
Its your choice to either accept your position as a plate OR to find a pandering beta fag who will give you the attention you "deserve".