I feel so alone no one to ask for advice . The guy I have been seeing I like a lot we are having a no strings fling . I have known him on n off since jan , first time round it ended over an argument but we sorted it out and met again . he is being strange again the other week I had a night out and he asked twice about it and started hinting if I had met someone I said no I'm not like that , this annoyed me because first time round he used to be jealous , then he started to be cold with me I then asked if he wants to end this we will , he said he feels confused and if He someone and vise Versa he would feel bad I said it's ok it's just fun !! A few days later I asked would we never see each other again and he said I never said we would never meet again . He is confusing as I enjoy it but he makes me feel confused what should I do ? I didn't message him did two days after and he messaged me asking if I'm ok . If he doesn't want this why can't he say then move on ? He avoids them questions ... Confused :-(
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I'm in a difficult situation I need some friendly advice :-(
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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But he probably thinks that you are.Bosscatxx said:
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Then you need to cut him loose and move on with your life. This is the advice we would give to any man who had oneitis for a chick.Bosscatxx said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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He's caught in limbo. On one hand, he's not happy or perhaps he's bored/frustrated. On the other hand, he doesn't want to give up the sex.Bosscatxx said:
A lot of people stay trapped in FWB arrangements for that reason.
"It sucks, but I least I'm getting laid" so I'll continue lol.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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He doesn't think you're attractive enough and you find him more attractive. Stop trying to date out of your league, hypergamous slut lol.
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There is no reason for him to commit to you because you don't offer anything.
He is f*cking you and he wants to keep doing so.. but that's really all he wants. He doesn't see the value in you.
Its your choice to either accept your position as a plate OR to find a pandering beta fag who will give you the attention you "deserve".
He is f*cking you and he wants to keep doing so.. but that's really all he wants. He doesn't see the value in you.
Its your choice to either accept your position as a plate OR to find a pandering beta fag who will give you the attention you "deserve".