I feel so alone no one to ask for advice . The guy I have been seeing I like a lot we are having a no strings fling . I have known him on n off since jan , first time round it ended over an argument but we sorted it out and met again . he is being strange again the other week I had a night out and he asked twice about it and started hinting if I had met someone I said no I'm not like that , this annoyed me because first time round he used to be jealous , then he started to be cold with me I then asked if he wants to end this we will , he said he feels confused and if He someone and vise Versa he would feel bad I said it's ok it's just fun !! A few days later I asked would we never see each other again and he said I never said we would never meet again . He is confusing as I enjoy it but he makes me feel confused what should I do ? I didn't message him did two days after and he messaged me asking if I'm ok . If he doesn't want this why can't he say then move on ? He avoids them questions ... Confused :-(
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm in a difficult situation I need some friendly advice :-(
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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But he probably thinks that you are.Bosscatxx said:
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Then you need to cut him loose and move on with your life. This is the advice we would give to any man who had oneitis for a chick.Bosscatxx said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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He's caught in limbo. On one hand, he's not happy or perhaps he's bored/frustrated. On the other hand, he doesn't want to give up the sex.Bosscatxx said:
A lot of people stay trapped in FWB arrangements for that reason.
"It sucks, but I least I'm getting laid" so I'll continue lol.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Every time one of these fake female poster trolls starts a thread, the place goes nuts.
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He doesn't think you're attractive enough and you find him more attractive. Stop trying to date out of your league, hypergamous slut lol.
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There is no reason for him to commit to you because you don't offer anything.
He is f*cking you and he wants to keep doing so.. but that's really all he wants. He doesn't see the value in you.
Its your choice to either accept your position as a plate OR to find a pandering beta fag who will give you the attention you "deserve".
He is f*cking you and he wants to keep doing so.. but that's really all he wants. He doesn't see the value in you.
Its your choice to either accept your position as a plate OR to find a pandering beta fag who will give you the attention you "deserve".