sylvester the cat
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm having trouble dropping this bpd.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MillionBillionaire
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Hey man.. this is going to be the hardest thing you will ever do but you need to go complete no contact with this girl and get this person out of your life. If she has only been with you for 4 months imagine how hard things will get a year from now.
Gangster family man.. for real?
Imagine how happy you will be once you are with a completely normal sane.. non bpd woman whom loves you and is not crazy.
Easier said than done.. I went complete beta on my last breakup so I know the feeling.
Good luck brotha.
Gangster family man.. for real?
Imagine how happy you will be once you are with a completely normal sane.. non bpd woman whom loves you and is not crazy.
Easier said than done.. I went complete beta on my last breakup so I know the feeling.
Good luck brotha.
He's already tried NC and that didn't work. Answer her calls and texts as normal. If she pushes to meet again do not agree. Make out you are busy or seeing friends then tell her you will contact her to arrange the next meet. Of course do not contact her. Soon enough she will get tired of this and drop it. It's the NC and threats to dump her that will attract this toxic kind of person to you. Just make out everything is normal. As for her stuff. Put it in a taxi and get them to deliver it to her.MillionBillionaire said:
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I had the same issue getting a BPD out of my life. She'd go hot and cold. She hooked up with a new guy but would still contact me regularly. I told her we shouldn't be in contact, she'd say okay. Soon enough she'd be back in contact, usually with something nostalgic that she knew I'd respond to. Must have gone through that 3 or 4 times. She used her twisted logic to turn the failure of our relationship on me, rationalizing her screwed up behavior and making it all my fault. She'd tell me she missed me. She'd tell me she'd stop contacting me. She'd tell me she still had feelings for me. She'd tell me maybe we'd be together again in the future. I went ghost, she texted and asked if we could talk. I blew her off. She kept texting. It was a total mind fvck. In a way I did and still do feel bad for her. But I went complete NC several months ago for my own sanity. These girls really are toxic for you. They will manipulate and scheme and be emotional vampires as long as you let them. Anything to keep you from walking away. She still texts even to this day. But I see the manipulation for what it is and ignore. It seems like when you walk, it flares up the abandonment fears and they cling to you. You've gotta go strict NC and stick to it. That's the only way. Good luck bro.
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What a long and painful way to drag things out... when it is finally over... op is going to wish he had done it sooner.:-) said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's already a long and painful drag by the sound of it. Treat her as you would a spam call. I get these PPI insurance calls all the time. Do you think they listen or care if I tell them not to call? Not one bit. Like the BPD they care only for what's in it for them (commission/validation). As long as OP has moved on in his mind that's all that matters.MillionBillionaire said: