sylvester the cat
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm having trouble dropping this bpd.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MillionBillionaire
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Hey man.. this is going to be the hardest thing you will ever do but you need to go complete no contact with this girl and get this person out of your life. If she has only been with you for 4 months imagine how hard things will get a year from now.
Gangster family man.. for real?
Imagine how happy you will be once you are with a completely normal sane.. non bpd woman whom loves you and is not crazy.
Easier said than done.. I went complete beta on my last breakup so I know the feeling.
Good luck brotha.
Gangster family man.. for real?
Imagine how happy you will be once you are with a completely normal sane.. non bpd woman whom loves you and is not crazy.
Easier said than done.. I went complete beta on my last breakup so I know the feeling.
Good luck brotha.
He's already tried NC and that didn't work. Answer her calls and texts as normal. If she pushes to meet again do not agree. Make out you are busy or seeing friends then tell her you will contact her to arrange the next meet. Of course do not contact her. Soon enough she will get tired of this and drop it. It's the NC and threats to dump her that will attract this toxic kind of person to you. Just make out everything is normal. As for her stuff. Put it in a taxi and get them to deliver it to her.MillionBillionaire said:
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I had the same issue getting a BPD out of my life. She'd go hot and cold. She hooked up with a new guy but would still contact me regularly. I told her we shouldn't be in contact, she'd say okay. Soon enough she'd be back in contact, usually with something nostalgic that she knew I'd respond to. Must have gone through that 3 or 4 times. She used her twisted logic to turn the failure of our relationship on me, rationalizing her screwed up behavior and making it all my fault. She'd tell me she missed me. She'd tell me she'd stop contacting me. She'd tell me she still had feelings for me. She'd tell me maybe we'd be together again in the future. I went ghost, she texted and asked if we could talk. I blew her off. She kept texting. It was a total mind fvck. In a way I did and still do feel bad for her. But I went complete NC several months ago for my own sanity. These girls really are toxic for you. They will manipulate and scheme and be emotional vampires as long as you let them. Anything to keep you from walking away. She still texts even to this day. But I see the manipulation for what it is and ignore. It seems like when you walk, it flares up the abandonment fears and they cling to you. You've gotta go strict NC and stick to it. That's the only way. Good luck bro.
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What a long and painful way to drag things out... when it is finally over... op is going to wish he had done it sooner.:-) said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's already a long and painful drag by the sound of it. Treat her as you would a spam call. I get these PPI insurance calls all the time. Do you think they listen or care if I tell them not to call? Not one bit. Like the BPD they care only for what's in it for them (commission/validation). As long as OP has moved on in his mind that's all that matters.MillionBillionaire said: