"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm gonna ruin her!!!

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Ok, time to explain this b*tch.

I'm a 25 year old guy from UK and she's a 33 year old b*tch from New Zealand. We met online and starting chatting as friends. We soon developed feelings for each other but:
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

We agreed we'll meet once she's single so we kept talking, chatting, texting, web-caming etc. This went on for about 8 months.

She eventually broke up with her bf after 8 months but said she needed time to heal up and be alone and once she was healed, we could then meet up and begin a relationship. Soon after, she then kept mentioning her "friend" to me.

I eventually understood that she was dating her "friend" and leading me on. I left her life and moved on but deep down I will NEVER again trust a girl.

She changed me, for better or worse, that doesn't matter but she hurt me. The amount of dumb things I've done for her is unbelievable, i.e. I was in hospital once and I didn't tell her so I went to buy a phone card whilst being ill so I could talk to her, I could barely walk without falling down but it didn't matter because I loved her so much.

About her:
She is really hot, I mean 8/10. Seen her on webcam and pics so I know.
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

I want to ruin this b*tch for using me! My plan is to tell everyone she knows the truth about her and me - her family, her friends on the forum, her ex and her current bf. She was having a emotional affair with me behind her current bf back and also her ex-bf's back. She loves playing a victim in every situation, let's see what she does when I expose her.

I know many of you will advice me not to but honestly, she deserves it and I want everyone to know the REAL her.

Yep, it's a revenge thread and that's what I intend to do, any advice or suggestions from you lot?

Can I get into any legal trouble for joining her gaming forum and telling all her virtual friends and bf about her??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sigh.... just move on, it isn't worth hating women for her "using you". It happens. Christ, what are you, 8 years old?

Also asking if you can get in trouble for posting on a gaming forum.... post her number on 4chan with her address if you want revenge.

Also 0/11 bad troll, at least be funny next time!
 

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So... You nvr met her... Cammed with her... She lead you on with words.. And this effected you so badly you want revenge? She wins man... Unless you drop her like a rock and get the fvck over it. It was nvr gunna happen... Find someone local.
 

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JohnChops said:
sigh.... just move on, it isn't worth hating women for her "using you". It happens. Christ, what are you, 8 years old?

Also asking if you can get in trouble for posting on a gaming forum.... post her number on 4chan with her address if you want revenge.

Also 0/11 bad troll, at least be funny next time!

I've moved on but she's left a mark on me. I don't hate women, I just don't trust them any longer..

P.s. I am not a troll
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Epimanes said:
So... You nvr met her... Cammed with her... She lead you on with words.. And this effected you so badly you want revenge? She wins man... Unless you drop her like a rock and get the fvck over it. It was nvr gunna happen... Find someone local.
It affected me badly because I genuinely loved her & all she did was use me so hell yeah, I was revenge. I never felt "love" for any ex or even the current girls I'm seeing but I did for her.

I don't want her and will never accept her even if she comes running back so it doesn't matter if she later wants me back or not - I just want to hurt her like she hurt me..
 

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Poor troll effort.
 

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lmao...seriously bro? Grow up...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I will say this... Sorry she used you as her emotional tampon... And that she stringed you along.. But I promise you won't feel any better if you seek revenge.. Sure maybe a temporary fleeting moment of "fvck yeah" but you will still feel hurt and nothing will change. Your better off to go and pump that anger into some bigger weights and just forget her... Plenty more where she came from.

Epi
 

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Epimanes said:
I will say this... Sorry she used you as her emotional tampon... And that she stringed you along.. But I promise you won't feel any better if you seek revenge.. Sure maybe a temporary fleeting moment of "fvck yeah" but you will still feel hurt and nothing will change. Your better off to go and pump that anger into some bigger weights and just forget her... Plenty more where she came from.

Epi
I know what you mean but right now she's with someone, he deserves to know that his gf was having a emotional affair behind his back, so does her ex-bf.

I have moved on but the issue is that I now have a very strong guard and the chicks I'm seeing can sense it. Ironically, the find it as some sort of challenge to break down my guard lol.. But I won't let myself fall for anyone again...ever.

I've suffered a hell of a lot and want her to remember me the next time she decides to lead someone on... Believe me, this girl will do the same thing to someone else one day..

That's my reasoning behind exposing her..
 

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I'm not against exposure.. All for it. But they are not married.. Technicaly there is no affair if your not married. Technicaly. So expose at your discretion but if you do don't puzzy foot around it or its just a rumor. You have to tell him it was you and own it and face the consequences that come with it. IMHO

Epi
 

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Epimanes said:
I'm not against exposure.. All for it. But they are not married.. Technicaly there is no affair if your not married. Technicaly. So expose at your discretion but if you do don't puzzy foot around it or its just a rumor. You have to tell him it was you and own it and face the consequences that come with it. IMHO

Epi
Yeah, that's the only thing, I'm gonna have to speak to her ex and her current bf but I have no idea how either of them are gonna take it. We're in different countries so they do sh*t but the fact is along with exposing this b*tch, I'm gonna end up hurting 2 guys..

I'm not too sure whether just to contact them or make a thread on that forum - it's a private forum with only her, her bf and their friends so her virtual friends can also know what she's all about...
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
The title of this thread is very misleading. I thought you wanted to 'ruin her' in a different kind of way.

:rock:
Hahahahaha... Joka
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Onetimeguy said:
Ok, time to explain this b*tch.

I'm a 25 year old guy from UK and she's a 33 year old b*tch from New Zealand. We met online and starting chatting as friends. We soon developed feelings for each other but:
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

We agreed we'll meet once she's single so we kept talking, chatting, texting, web-caming etc. This went on for about 8 months.

She eventually broke up with her bf after 8 months but said she needed time to heal up and be alone and once she was healed, we could then meet up and begin a relationship. Soon after, she then kept mentioning her "friend" to me.

I eventually understood that she was dating her "friend" and leading me on. I left her life and moved on but deep down I will NEVER again trust a girl.

She changed me, for better or worse, that doesn't matter but she hurt me. The amount of dumb things I've done for her is unbelievable, i.e. I was in hospital once and I didn't tell her so I went to buy a phone card whilst being ill so I could talk to her, I could barely walk without falling down but it didn't matter because I loved her so much.

About her:
She is really hot, I mean 8/10. Seen her on webcam and pics so I know.
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

I want to ruin this b*tch for using me! My plan is to tell everyone she knows the truth about her and me - her family, her friends on the forum, her ex and her current bf. She was having a emotional affair with me behind her current bf back and also her ex-bf's back. She loves playing a victim in every situation, let's see what she does when I expose her.

I know many of you will advice me not to but honestly, she deserves it and I want everyone to know the REAL her.

Yep, it's a revenge thread and that's what I intend to do, any advice or suggestions from you lot?

Can I get into any legal trouble for joining her gaming forum and telling all her virtual friends and bf about her??
:kick: your such puzzy lol. Omg i was talking to this girl online that i never smash and she didn't have feeling for me now going to run a smear campaign for my butthurt. lol get overself you were seriously a friend and nothing more you develop feelings for her not the other away around. do we as men really condone such puzzy if we do then we need some help jeez.:trouble:
 

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OP, this woman owns you. She's your jailer.

As long as she occupies your mind, you are in her jail.

Grow up, get over it, and find a worthy woman.
 

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Wtf? You mad? Live and let live. If you did good by her then karma will have something far worse for her than you can imagine.. Be a man let it go...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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