"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm gonna ruin her!!!

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Ok, time to explain this b*tch.

I'm a 25 year old guy from UK and she's a 33 year old b*tch from New Zealand. We met online and starting chatting as friends. We soon developed feelings for each other but:
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

We agreed we'll meet once she's single so we kept talking, chatting, texting, web-caming etc. This went on for about 8 months.

She eventually broke up with her bf after 8 months but said she needed time to heal up and be alone and once she was healed, we could then meet up and begin a relationship. Soon after, she then kept mentioning her "friend" to me.

I eventually understood that she was dating her "friend" and leading me on. I left her life and moved on but deep down I will NEVER again trust a girl.

She changed me, for better or worse, that doesn't matter but she hurt me. The amount of dumb things I've done for her is unbelievable, i.e. I was in hospital once and I didn't tell her so I went to buy a phone card whilst being ill so I could talk to her, I could barely walk without falling down but it didn't matter because I loved her so much.

About her:
She is really hot, I mean 8/10. Seen her on webcam and pics so I know.
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

I want to ruin this b*tch for using me! My plan is to tell everyone she knows the truth about her and me - her family, her friends on the forum, her ex and her current bf. She was having a emotional affair with me behind her current bf back and also her ex-bf's back. She loves playing a victim in every situation, let's see what she does when I expose her.

I know many of you will advice me not to but honestly, she deserves it and I want everyone to know the REAL her.

Yep, it's a revenge thread and that's what I intend to do, any advice or suggestions from you lot?

Can I get into any legal trouble for joining her gaming forum and telling all her virtual friends and bf about her??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sigh.... just move on, it isn't worth hating women for her "using you". It happens. Christ, what are you, 8 years old?

Also asking if you can get in trouble for posting on a gaming forum.... post her number on 4chan with her address if you want revenge.

Also 0/11 bad troll, at least be funny next time!
 

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So... You nvr met her... Cammed with her... She lead you on with words.. And this effected you so badly you want revenge? She wins man... Unless you drop her like a rock and get the fvck over it. It was nvr gunna happen... Find someone local.
 

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JohnChops said:
sigh.... just move on, it isn't worth hating women for her "using you". It happens. Christ, what are you, 8 years old?

Also asking if you can get in trouble for posting on a gaming forum.... post her number on 4chan with her address if you want revenge.

Also 0/11 bad troll, at least be funny next time!

I've moved on but she's left a mark on me. I don't hate women, I just don't trust them any longer..

P.s. I am not a troll
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Epimanes said:
So... You nvr met her... Cammed with her... She lead you on with words.. And this effected you so badly you want revenge? She wins man... Unless you drop her like a rock and get the fvck over it. It was nvr gunna happen... Find someone local.
It affected me badly because I genuinely loved her & all she did was use me so hell yeah, I was revenge. I never felt "love" for any ex or even the current girls I'm seeing but I did for her.

I don't want her and will never accept her even if she comes running back so it doesn't matter if she later wants me back or not - I just want to hurt her like she hurt me..
 

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Poor troll effort.
 

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lmao...seriously bro? Grow up...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I will say this... Sorry she used you as her emotional tampon... And that she stringed you along.. But I promise you won't feel any better if you seek revenge.. Sure maybe a temporary fleeting moment of "fvck yeah" but you will still feel hurt and nothing will change. Your better off to go and pump that anger into some bigger weights and just forget her... Plenty more where she came from.

Epi
 

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Epimanes said:
I will say this... Sorry she used you as her emotional tampon... And that she stringed you along.. But I promise you won't feel any better if you seek revenge.. Sure maybe a temporary fleeting moment of "fvck yeah" but you will still feel hurt and nothing will change. Your better off to go and pump that anger into some bigger weights and just forget her... Plenty more where she came from.

Epi
I know what you mean but right now she's with someone, he deserves to know that his gf was having a emotional affair behind his back, so does her ex-bf.

I have moved on but the issue is that I now have a very strong guard and the chicks I'm seeing can sense it. Ironically, the find it as some sort of challenge to break down my guard lol.. But I won't let myself fall for anyone again...ever.

I've suffered a hell of a lot and want her to remember me the next time she decides to lead someone on... Believe me, this girl will do the same thing to someone else one day..

That's my reasoning behind exposing her..
 

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I'm not against exposure.. All for it. But they are not married.. Technicaly there is no affair if your not married. Technicaly. So expose at your discretion but if you do don't puzzy foot around it or its just a rumor. You have to tell him it was you and own it and face the consequences that come with it. IMHO

Epi
 

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Epimanes said:
I'm not against exposure.. All for it. But they are not married.. Technicaly there is no affair if your not married. Technicaly. So expose at your discretion but if you do don't puzzy foot around it or its just a rumor. You have to tell him it was you and own it and face the consequences that come with it. IMHO

Epi
Yeah, that's the only thing, I'm gonna have to speak to her ex and her current bf but I have no idea how either of them are gonna take it. We're in different countries so they do sh*t but the fact is along with exposing this b*tch, I'm gonna end up hurting 2 guys..

I'm not too sure whether just to contact them or make a thread on that forum - it's a private forum with only her, her bf and their friends so her virtual friends can also know what she's all about...
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
The title of this thread is very misleading. I thought you wanted to 'ruin her' in a different kind of way.

:rock:
Hahahahaha... Joka
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Onetimeguy said:
Ok, time to explain this b*tch.

I'm a 25 year old guy from UK and she's a 33 year old b*tch from New Zealand. We met online and starting chatting as friends. We soon developed feelings for each other but:
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

We agreed we'll meet once she's single so we kept talking, chatting, texting, web-caming etc. This went on for about 8 months.

She eventually broke up with her bf after 8 months but said she needed time to heal up and be alone and once she was healed, we could then meet up and begin a relationship. Soon after, she then kept mentioning her "friend" to me.

I eventually understood that she was dating her "friend" and leading me on. I left her life and moved on but deep down I will NEVER again trust a girl.

She changed me, for better or worse, that doesn't matter but she hurt me. The amount of dumb things I've done for her is unbelievable, i.e. I was in hospital once and I didn't tell her so I went to buy a phone card whilst being ill so I could talk to her, I could barely walk without falling down but it didn't matter because I loved her so much.

About her:
She is really hot, I mean 8/10. Seen her on webcam and pics so I know.
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

I want to ruin this b*tch for using me! My plan is to tell everyone she knows the truth about her and me - her family, her friends on the forum, her ex and her current bf. She was having a emotional affair with me behind her current bf back and also her ex-bf's back. She loves playing a victim in every situation, let's see what she does when I expose her.

I know many of you will advice me not to but honestly, she deserves it and I want everyone to know the REAL her.

Yep, it's a revenge thread and that's what I intend to do, any advice or suggestions from you lot?

Can I get into any legal trouble for joining her gaming forum and telling all her virtual friends and bf about her??
:kick: your such puzzy lol. Omg i was talking to this girl online that i never smash and she didn't have feeling for me now going to run a smear campaign for my butthurt. lol get overself you were seriously a friend and nothing more you develop feelings for her not the other away around. do we as men really condone such puzzy if we do then we need some help jeez.:trouble:
 

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OP, this woman owns you. She's your jailer.

As long as she occupies your mind, you are in her jail.

Grow up, get over it, and find a worthy woman.
 

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Wtf? You mad? Live and let live. If you did good by her then karma will have something far worse for her than you can imagine.. Be a man let it go...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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