im going her home on first date to play pc game

[sosousage]

I know first date pre-set sexes are 99% flakes but this time its different. shes really into me and invisted me yesterday but It was late (8 PM) so I preferedd to shower and eat after training etc instead of rushing.


So shes a game fan (i played that particular game in the past but shes probably better than me) and we flirt a lot. I expect sex.


To be honest I am more confident than in the past about how to proceed to sex, however Id still hear opinions about how to proceed to game from meeting her in city centre (we go straight to her house) or from playing game lol


yesterday when she invited me she was like "ohh so you cant come? you made me want it and now you are not coming, pfy" thats why i expect fuvking lol

 

[sosousage]

WTF. She didnt open her mouth then said i cant kiss and asked if i was ever called bad kisser. Just wtf wtf going back home.


I kissed many girls without problem. How do you guys kiss?

I had problem with kissing this one

 

[marmel75]

Lol. How do you get into so many fvcked up situations?

Poor escalation flow...

 

[sosousage]

Lol. How do you get into so many fvcked up situations?

no clue. im dating one girl now and shes fine with kissing me. I agree i had hard time kissing this one (i dont know why) but I felt its not good too. I wasnt turned off by that tho, she was. To be honest now I am affraid about next dates maybe i kiss badly lol.

The thing I remember is that i couldnt find a compatibility with her, Like I wanted to stick my tongue in, and she didnt, not sure what she expected me to do. if She wanted me to go slow, then thats mind **** too because she said its over when i grabbed her lips with mine (which is a trait of slow, gentle kissing)

 

[marmel75]

no clue. im dating one girl now and shes fine with kissing me. I agree i had hard time kissing this one (i dont know why) but I felt its not good too. I wasnt turned off by that tho, she was. To be honest now I am affraid about next dates maybe i kiss badly lol.

The thing I remember is that i couldnt find a compatibility with her, Like I wanted to stick my tongue in, and she didnt, not sure what she expected me to do. if She wanted me to go slow, then thats mind **** too because she said its over when i grabbed her lips with mine (which is a trait of slow, gentle kissing)

You always let the woman take the lead with the type of kiss and then follow...since its a huge deal to woman you want to make sure its exactly what she wants...basically mirror what she is doing once you start making out.

 

[sosousage]

You always let the woman take the lead with the type of kiss and then follow...since its a huge deal to woman you want to make sure its exactly what she wants...basically mirror what she is doing once you start making out.

So when she sat on me and I had my back touching the back-wall of sofa I was supposed to just wait and not do any movement?

 

[marmel75]

So when she sat on me and I had my back touching the back-wall of sofa I was supposed to just wait and not do any movement?

Nope I never said that..you give her a standard kiss and keep going with no tongue until she changes it up

 

[sosousage]

Nope I never said that..you give her a standard kiss and keep going with no tongue until she changes it up

Ok ill do it like that from now on

Its last time I set a 'sex' first date. They in my case never work. Maybe I should just give up with women, have just one girlfriend, and not deal with this hepatitis activity. Or maybe ill date ugly or fat girls, at least they wont say i kiss terribly.

i had big urge so I fapped (3 weeks no fap already I had) and gonna focus on my stuff. I wish im in the position to blow girls off because they "kiss bad"

 

[lizardking82]

Stop overthinking it, man. Let it go. The situations that worry you are a good indicator of your level right now. Your level right now is that you worry whether a girl liked your kiss or not. Work on your other areas of life and you will be much more secure in this one, too.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

WTF. She didnt open her mouth then said i cant kiss and asked if i was ever called bad kisser. Just wtf wtf going back home.


I kissed many girls without problem. How do you guys kiss?

I had problem with kissing this one

Man I hate this ****. I had a girl like that once. Most awkward thing in the world to kiss/make out with her. Like a million chicken pecks instead of actual kisses lol. Was weird. I find that most girls don’t like using tongue though. But I mean I’m not asking for tongue, just open your mouth a little. That was a long time ago though. Her breath stank after a while anyway so glad that’s over *shudder*