"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Going Dumber And Dumber!!!!!!

spider_007

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what the hell, i used to get 90's in advanced math in highschool doing all the eqasions and factoring and all that jazz, now i can't even keep track of my train of thought.:confused: stupid azz ****. i'm starting to feel like an idiot.

i was trying to carry a conversation yesturday, and i forgot what i was talking about....:confused: ...i had to bullsh1t for like 5 seconds till i remembered.

i try to organize my thoughts before i say it, so it comes out in a logical manner that makes sence, I CAN'T EVEN DO THAT NOW!!!! i was asking somebody something yesturday and i couldn't explain my self right (i kept mumbeling).

Could stress be causing this??? I used to be under a lot of stress (till about a year ago). I'm not exacly stressing over anything right now, but i'm not exacly having a blast eather. anybody else having these problems?????

i keep forgeting things; if i'm going to get something, by the time i get there, i forget what i was going there for. this morning i forgot where i left of with work yesturday......

even the simplest things, i sometimes can't wram my brain around.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe its time to think about buying a helmet and riding the short bus.
 

spider_007

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never tried pot, and my alchohol intake is; 1 beer/drink every month (i rarly party)

my pvssy intake is at minimum too,:p

i don't watch tv for more then an 2 hours a day (i just started reading a book).

i'm also trying those brain teasers in my spare time, but so far all i'm getting is a headique.

it's really anoying, the way it's going i'll have oldtimers when im 30
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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