"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm Going Dumber And Dumber!!!!!!

spider_007

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what the hell, i used to get 90's in advanced math in highschool doing all the eqasions and factoring and all that jazz, now i can't even keep track of my train of thought.:confused: stupid azz ****. i'm starting to feel like an idiot.

i was trying to carry a conversation yesturday, and i forgot what i was talking about....:confused: ...i had to bullsh1t for like 5 seconds till i remembered.

i try to organize my thoughts before i say it, so it comes out in a logical manner that makes sence, I CAN'T EVEN DO THAT NOW!!!! i was asking somebody something yesturday and i couldn't explain my self right (i kept mumbeling).

Could stress be causing this??? I used to be under a lot of stress (till about a year ago). I'm not exacly stressing over anything right now, but i'm not exacly having a blast eather. anybody else having these problems?????

i keep forgeting things; if i'm going to get something, by the time i get there, i forget what i was going there for. this morning i forgot where i left of with work yesturday......

even the simplest things, i sometimes can't wram my brain around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe its time to think about buying a helmet and riding the short bus.
 

spider_007

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never tried pot, and my alchohol intake is; 1 beer/drink every month (i rarly party)

my pvssy intake is at minimum too,:p

i don't watch tv for more then an 2 hours a day (i just started reading a book).

i'm also trying those brain teasers in my spare time, but so far all i'm getting is a headique.

it's really anoying, the way it's going i'll have oldtimers when im 30
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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