"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm getting too emotional

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I need some motivation.

For you more experienced players in the game what did you do to seperate your feelings.

I have been with a girl for over a month now and every little thing that she does strikes an emotion with me, positive or negative. Its getting to the point that I analyse each SMS and act on it ...it must be getting annoying for her. Yes, I'm insecure but I am better than I was.

What can I do? I feel that reading more and more of pro's material like DeAngelo actually helps me to think I am better which helps.

Any ideas? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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not good man

i know its hard but try to focus on your own hobbies and stuff

dont live your life like that

or try not to call her for like a week for no particular reason and if she calls before and says something like: "why arent you callin?" then your good to go for another month or so

just take it easy
 
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Hehe, I think I explained my situation a bit over the top.

Its not that bad ...I just get emotional over things she does.

But your right, I'm going to focus on me more and forget her ...if she calls, then I feel good again. Cheers.
 
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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Get a life!!!

No seriously... just get a life...
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*cough*

:rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Thats the DJ way!!!!
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Are you the Mac diddy, or the Diddy mac?
 
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