Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm getting too emotional

Ouzo

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I need some motivation.

For you more experienced players in the game what did you do to seperate your feelings.

I have been with a girl for over a month now and every little thing that she does strikes an emotion with me, positive or negative. Its getting to the point that I analyse each SMS and act on it ...it must be getting annoying for her. Yes, I'm insecure but I am better than I was.

What can I do? I feel that reading more and more of pro's material like DeAngelo actually helps me to think I am better which helps.

Any ideas? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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not good man

i know its hard but try to focus on your own hobbies and stuff

dont live your life like that

or try not to call her for like a week for no particular reason and if she calls before and says something like: "why arent you callin?" then your good to go for another month or so

just take it easy
 

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Hehe, I think I explained my situation a bit over the top.

Its not that bad ...I just get emotional over things she does.

But your right, I'm going to focus on me more and forget her ...if she calls, then I feel good again. Cheers.
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Get a life!!!

No seriously... just get a life...
*cough*

:rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Thats the DJ way!!!!
Are you the Mac diddy, or the Diddy mac?
 
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