"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm getting too emotional

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I need some motivation.

For you more experienced players in the game what did you do to seperate your feelings.

I have been with a girl for over a month now and every little thing that she does strikes an emotion with me, positive or negative. Its getting to the point that I analyse each SMS and act on it ...it must be getting annoying for her. Yes, I'm insecure but I am better than I was.

What can I do? I feel that reading more and more of pro's material like DeAngelo actually helps me to think I am better which helps.

Any ideas? :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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not good man

i know its hard but try to focus on your own hobbies and stuff

dont live your life like that

or try not to call her for like a week for no particular reason and if she calls before and says something like: "why arent you callin?" then your good to go for another month or so

just take it easy
 
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Hehe, I think I explained my situation a bit over the top.

Its not that bad ...I just get emotional over things she does.

But your right, I'm going to focus on me more and forget her ...if she calls, then I feel good again. Cheers.
 
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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Get a life!!!

No seriously... just get a life...
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*cough*

:rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Thats the DJ way!!!!
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Are you the Mac diddy, or the Diddy mac?
 
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