“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm getting too emotional

Ouzo

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I need some motivation.

For you more experienced players in the game what did you do to seperate your feelings.

I have been with a girl for over a month now and every little thing that she does strikes an emotion with me, positive or negative. Its getting to the point that I analyse each SMS and act on it ...it must be getting annoying for her. Yes, I'm insecure but I am better than I was.

What can I do? I feel that reading more and more of pro's material like DeAngelo actually helps me to think I am better which helps.

Any ideas? :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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not good man

i know its hard but try to focus on your own hobbies and stuff

dont live your life like that

or try not to call her for like a week for no particular reason and if she calls before and says something like: "why arent you callin?" then your good to go for another month or so

just take it easy
 

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Hehe, I think I explained my situation a bit over the top.

Its not that bad ...I just get emotional over things she does.

But your right, I'm going to focus on me more and forget her ...if she calls, then I feel good again. Cheers.
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Get a life!!!

No seriously... just get a life...
*cough*

:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Thats the DJ way!!!!
Are you the Mac diddy, or the Diddy mac?
 
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