I'm going to a new school where everybody knows everybody and i know no body. I wanna get into a group with cute girls and all but their's an Amog he makes me lose confidense it's not that he's cool or anything he's just really funny to them, but i dont wanna talk to him and the girls around him cause i know he's gonna AMOG blast me. wth do i do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm getting AMOGED
- Thread starter Rint
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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ok can somebody please tell me what an AMOG is?
shadowfox
Don Juan
alpha male of the group i think
Yeh, close enuff.
Alpha Male Other Guy.
Rint, if all he has is humour, then you have nothing to be worried about. At least he doesn't beat you up or tease you (does he?)
Just chill, its all in your mind. If the funniest guys got all the chicks, then clowns would be in pretty high demand with women.
But they ain't.
So go in there, and have fun. Bust a few jokes every once in a while, but don't worry if you don't. You have other qualities that make you worthy.
-peace-
Alpha Male Other Guy.
Rint, if all he has is humour, then you have nothing to be worried about. At least he doesn't beat you up or tease you (does he?)
Just chill, its all in your mind. If the funniest guys got all the chicks, then clowns would be in pretty high demand with women.
But they ain't.
So go in there, and have fun. Bust a few jokes every once in a while, but don't worry if you don't. You have other qualities that make you worthy.
-peace-
familyguyfan
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Yeah people really need to tone down the amount of abbreviations used on this site.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.