but i just dont have enough time to work with, she's in my spanish class, (keep in mind, all my other classes dont have girls, and theres only 3 or so in this one. until next semmester) and it just makes it harder cause she's not all that talkative, always quiet. i was thinking about number closing at the end of class but was unable to due to the teacher. we're always busy so no talking time at all except maybe 2 or so minutes at the beginning of class.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jeffthechef
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then do it in the first 2 mins...or else you'll always find some excuse to do it...or even more likely, you'll wait for that perfect moment...and when it does come...you'll immediately turn into an afc and not do it...then you'll spend the summer thinking about it..then the nex year rolls around and the same thing happens
JUST ****ING DO IT...it's not that hard..
1. Introduce yourself
2. Ask her how she's doing
3. Suggest you guys go do something together..dont ask
4. Subtly demand her number..."Well, class is about to start..give me your number and i'll call you up sometime so we can go do (whatever you suggested during #3)
Be a man. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and tells all her friends and everyone finds out. Now, if you're a true alpha...This doesn't mean **** to you. But seeing as how you are new..I'll leave youw ith this cliche...which i hate but fits the situation..but then again It's Dr. Seuss
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
Basically, **** everyone who gives you **** about it. They'll forget about it in time, and why would any Superior person waste their time giving someone else **** about something when they could be living their own lives?
JUST ****ING DO IT...it's not that hard..
1. Introduce yourself
2. Ask her how she's doing
3. Suggest you guys go do something together..dont ask
4. Subtly demand her number..."Well, class is about to start..give me your number and i'll call you up sometime so we can go do (whatever you suggested during #3)
Be a man. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and tells all her friends and everyone finds out. Now, if you're a true alpha...This doesn't mean **** to you. But seeing as how you are new..I'll leave youw ith this cliche...which i hate but fits the situation..but then again It's Dr. Seuss
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
Basically, **** everyone who gives you **** about it. They'll forget about it in time, and why would any Superior person waste their time giving someone else **** about something when they could be living their own lives?
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
^^True...besides too many your age have the balls to talk to a female so **** everyone else.
You can catch her before class, after class, in the halls etc...You can do it homie and its so easy when you really think about it. Just go up to her like you speak to your boys. Ask how she doing in the class, you may need help on speaking, homework, assignments.
In my english class in Jr. College I had this bad shawty thats a 9 and everyone else in the class was some lames...I tapped her on the chair and ask do she be getting what the teacher be saying(with a smile)...she said yea sometimes and smiled back. After class I got up with her while leaving and introduce myself and said we can converse on some things about the class but I drifted to "what you like doing", "what you be getting into over the weekend". We stood in the parking lot chit chatting and ended by asking for the number...That easy!!
You can catch her before class, after class, in the halls etc...You can do it homie and its so easy when you really think about it. Just go up to her like you speak to your boys. Ask how she doing in the class, you may need help on speaking, homework, assignments.
In my english class in Jr. College I had this bad shawty thats a 9 and everyone else in the class was some lames...I tapped her on the chair and ask do she be getting what the teacher be saying(with a smile)...she said yea sometimes and smiled back. After class I got up with her while leaving and introduce myself and said we can converse on some things about the class but I drifted to "what you like doing", "what you be getting into over the weekend". We stood in the parking lot chit chatting and ended by asking for the number...That easy!!
eaglez1177
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Jeff hit the nail on the head as usual!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
