but i just dont have enough time to work with, she's in my spanish class, (keep in mind, all my other classes dont have girls, and theres only 3 or so in this one. until next semmester) and it just makes it harder cause she's not all that talkative, always quiet. i was thinking about number closing at the end of class but was unable to due to the teacher. we're always busy so no talking time at all except maybe 2 or so minutes at the beginning of class.
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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jeffthechef
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then do it in the first 2 mins...or else you'll always find some excuse to do it...or even more likely, you'll wait for that perfect moment...and when it does come...you'll immediately turn into an afc and not do it...then you'll spend the summer thinking about it..then the nex year rolls around and the same thing happens
JUST ****ING DO IT...it's not that hard..
1. Introduce yourself
2. Ask her how she's doing
3. Suggest you guys go do something together..dont ask
4. Subtly demand her number..."Well, class is about to start..give me your number and i'll call you up sometime so we can go do (whatever you suggested during #3)
Be a man. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and tells all her friends and everyone finds out. Now, if you're a true alpha...This doesn't mean **** to you. But seeing as how you are new..I'll leave youw ith this cliche...which i hate but fits the situation..but then again It's Dr. Seuss
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
Basically, **** everyone who gives you **** about it. They'll forget about it in time, and why would any Superior person waste their time giving someone else **** about something when they could be living their own lives?
JUST ****ING DO IT...it's not that hard..
1. Introduce yourself
2. Ask her how she's doing
3. Suggest you guys go do something together..dont ask
4. Subtly demand her number..."Well, class is about to start..give me your number and i'll call you up sometime so we can go do (whatever you suggested during #3)
Be a man. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and tells all her friends and everyone finds out. Now, if you're a true alpha...This doesn't mean **** to you. But seeing as how you are new..I'll leave youw ith this cliche...which i hate but fits the situation..but then again It's Dr. Seuss
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
Basically, **** everyone who gives you **** about it. They'll forget about it in time, and why would any Superior person waste their time giving someone else **** about something when they could be living their own lives?
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
^^True...besides too many your age have the balls to talk to a female so **** everyone else.
You can catch her before class, after class, in the halls etc...You can do it homie and its so easy when you really think about it. Just go up to her like you speak to your boys. Ask how she doing in the class, you may need help on speaking, homework, assignments.
In my english class in Jr. College I had this bad shawty thats a 9 and everyone else in the class was some lames...I tapped her on the chair and ask do she be getting what the teacher be saying(with a smile)...she said yea sometimes and smiled back. After class I got up with her while leaving and introduce myself and said we can converse on some things about the class but I drifted to "what you like doing", "what you be getting into over the weekend". We stood in the parking lot chit chatting and ended by asking for the number...That easy!!
You can catch her before class, after class, in the halls etc...You can do it homie and its so easy when you really think about it. Just go up to her like you speak to your boys. Ask how she doing in the class, you may need help on speaking, homework, assignments.
In my english class in Jr. College I had this bad shawty thats a 9 and everyone else in the class was some lames...I tapped her on the chair and ask do she be getting what the teacher be saying(with a smile)...she said yea sometimes and smiled back. After class I got up with her while leaving and introduce myself and said we can converse on some things about the class but I drifted to "what you like doing", "what you be getting into over the weekend". We stood in the parking lot chit chatting and ended by asking for the number...That easy!!
eaglez1177
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Jeff hit the nail on the head as usual!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
