but i just dont have enough time to work with, she's in my spanish class, (keep in mind, all my other classes dont have girls, and theres only 3 or so in this one. until next semmester) and it just makes it harder cause she's not all that talkative, always quiet. i was thinking about number closing at the end of class but was unable to due to the teacher. we're always busy so no talking time at all except maybe 2 or so minutes at the beginning of class.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
im gaming this girl
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jeffthechef
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then do it in the first 2 mins...or else you'll always find some excuse to do it...or even more likely, you'll wait for that perfect moment...and when it does come...you'll immediately turn into an afc and not do it...then you'll spend the summer thinking about it..then the nex year rolls around and the same thing happens
JUST ****ING DO IT...it's not that hard..
1. Introduce yourself
2. Ask her how she's doing
3. Suggest you guys go do something together..dont ask
4. Subtly demand her number..."Well, class is about to start..give me your number and i'll call you up sometime so we can go do (whatever you suggested during #3)
Be a man. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and tells all her friends and everyone finds out. Now, if you're a true alpha...This doesn't mean **** to you. But seeing as how you are new..I'll leave youw ith this cliche...which i hate but fits the situation..but then again It's Dr. Seuss
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
Basically, **** everyone who gives you **** about it. They'll forget about it in time, and why would any Superior person waste their time giving someone else **** about something when they could be living their own lives?
JUST ****ING DO IT...it's not that hard..
1. Introduce yourself
2. Ask her how she's doing
3. Suggest you guys go do something together..dont ask
4. Subtly demand her number..."Well, class is about to start..give me your number and i'll call you up sometime so we can go do (whatever you suggested during #3)
Be a man. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and tells all her friends and everyone finds out. Now, if you're a true alpha...This doesn't mean **** to you. But seeing as how you are new..I'll leave youw ith this cliche...which i hate but fits the situation..but then again It's Dr. Seuss
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
Basically, **** everyone who gives you **** about it. They'll forget about it in time, and why would any Superior person waste their time giving someone else **** about something when they could be living their own lives?
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
^^True...besides too many your age have the balls to talk to a female so **** everyone else.
You can catch her before class, after class, in the halls etc...You can do it homie and its so easy when you really think about it. Just go up to her like you speak to your boys. Ask how she doing in the class, you may need help on speaking, homework, assignments.
In my english class in Jr. College I had this bad shawty thats a 9 and everyone else in the class was some lames...I tapped her on the chair and ask do she be getting what the teacher be saying(with a smile)...she said yea sometimes and smiled back. After class I got up with her while leaving and introduce myself and said we can converse on some things about the class but I drifted to "what you like doing", "what you be getting into over the weekend". We stood in the parking lot chit chatting and ended by asking for the number...That easy!!
You can catch her before class, after class, in the halls etc...You can do it homie and its so easy when you really think about it. Just go up to her like you speak to your boys. Ask how she doing in the class, you may need help on speaking, homework, assignments.
In my english class in Jr. College I had this bad shawty thats a 9 and everyone else in the class was some lames...I tapped her on the chair and ask do she be getting what the teacher be saying(with a smile)...she said yea sometimes and smiled back. After class I got up with her while leaving and introduce myself and said we can converse on some things about the class but I drifted to "what you like doing", "what you be getting into over the weekend". We stood in the parking lot chit chatting and ended by asking for the number...That easy!!
eaglez1177
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Jeff hit the nail on the head as usual!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
